Falling out of love

For me, we don't fall in and fall out of love, love is not an abrupt feeling, love grows, in growing, time is a factor. Because in loving making decisions is involve. We decide to love, it is not because we fall in love. When we love we also decide to commit, that despite the everything's of life the relationship must succeed. And relationships is not a fairy tale that in the end every body well lived happily ever after, love is not just about happiness and good times, love is more like I would rather have bad time with you than good times with someone else.

Yeps, the real thing is that Genuine Love Never Fades.. Its true, at time we get to hear that people dropping out of their commitment, admitting that the love just fade..I just can't happen to believe in that!

yeah i must agree with you... based on my experience, i must believe that there's no such thing as falling out of love. my husband and i are not in good situation,we are having a long distance relationship and he is almost 2 yrs miles away from us. those times have been very difficult for us, we always have misunderstanding until i decided not to talk to him although we still have communications but things were not like before, we always take about our dreams, plans and so on. but as times passes by, were having a hard way to make our plans and dreams come true, we always quarrel... and we have been very tired of the situation... until we both feel that we should get over it. and one day, when i woke up, i thought that my love for him is gone, i mean i have fallen out of love for him but i just realized that it isnt because when i heard that he is flirting with another girl, it hurts me a lot.... so i dont think there is such thing as falling out of love... there's some misundersting so we're lookign for a person who will make us happy..

yes i agree, if we say we love, in the truest sense of the word,it will always stay, no matter if people in love may be far apart from each other. people who say they fall out of love, may not have truly loved at all... that is just what i think