Change your Mind - Change Your Life

I agree to that. It is certainly true that whatever we want to become in our life,first we have to aspire for that. This can be observed everywhere in life. We always ask a child that what he wants to become after growing up and child answers according to his aspiration at that age though this may change as child grows up and has better experience of this world. So this can be said safely that this kind of feeling is there in our mind since early childhood. In fact for every thing you want to achieve in life,first one has to aspire for that in his mind and somebody is having negative feeling for something in the corner of his mind, he can never aspire for that and hence can not get that thing in his life. So,your friend is very right in saying that the person ofyour example can not become rich,because somewhere in the back of his mind, he is having negative feeling against becoming rich. So I always think that I should think that I am destined to become rich and I must try to achieve this goal. But one more thing I want to add here that our aspirations and means to achieve these goals must be legitimate only and we should alway try to do the things in a way that is good for our family and society.