Are you friendly?

@lieanat (1137)
Malaysia
June 5, 2008 8:49pm CST
Have your friends feedback to you that you are friendly or not friendly? What is their first impressions towards you before they make friend with you?
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siZidni
@siZidni (1860)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 08
no i never have feedback from friends here in mylot. but i have some in yuwie and facebook. i know that i am friendly then :)
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siZidni
@siZidni (1860)
• Indonesia
9 Jun 08
o i see. well i am indeed friendly.. i am easily could be friend of others. but some time i make mistake. some people i am too proud people since i am lack of smile to new people. yes that me.
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lieanat
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 08
Actually my discussion is refer to real world situation, not from facebook or mylot. That's really hard to justify in online social site. Thanks for your comment.
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lieanat
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 08
I believe you are friendly person too. Thanks for your comment and have a nice day.
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Angel
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Hi there Lieanat! I like making firends but people usually don't see me as friendly. Most of thim think that I am a snob and I am working to change how they see me.
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lieanat
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 08
Hi, I know how you feel as there are some people still think I'm their enemy! And they often misunderstand me just because I smile less and my face naturally is fierce to them. But I advise you not to purposely change yourself just to meet their standard. Be who you are and more nice to people. I believe you can have more friends soon.
quawertz
@quawertz (777)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
My friends thought i was a snob when they first saw me. But when they talked to me they said I was nice. My best friend described me as friendly but in my own opinion I am not really friendly. I am a shy girl so I find it hard to make friends.
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lieanat
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 08
Thanks for your comment. I think you are friendly since your friends already commented that on you. It's OK to be shy, just be who we are and willing to help out friends, then we'll make more friends!
weng_08
@weng_08 (282)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
I think I am friendly but I sometimes give the impression of being a snob, but it is not always true that 'first impressions last'. I'm still close even with my friends whom I met in primary and secondary school. I don't have a large group of friends but I've got the best ones.
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lieanat
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 08
I agree with you that first impression doesn't last long as long as we prove we are not what they think of us. Otherwise, I'll be a lonely person on earth as my face really scare many people. They said I'm like an angry tigress especially when I don't put smile on my face!!! Thanks for your comment.
pricessfafa
@pricessfafa (138)
• United States
6 Jun 08
sometimes i think i'm to friendly, i love my friend dearly,i always try not to hurt them in anyways possible,i'm very honest and respectfull, people always say that i'm a very friendly girl
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lieanat
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 08
Thanks for your comment. I agree that we should treat our friends with honesty and respect. I think friendly has more than this.
fratertelo
@fratertelo (247)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 08
lieanat friends of mine always say that i am a loner people. i do not speak very much. but i can make a charm relationship with my friends. so all of them told that i am a friendly and easy going. it make me happy, you now.
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lieanat
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 08
Well, I have a fierce face and quite seldom people will approach me to know me. But once we are close, most of my friends will say I'm not as fierce as they ever thought of me. So, I guess I'm friendly to them! Thanks for your comment.
ssh123
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
6 Jun 08
There is no need to get the feed back from the friends regarding the type of friendship I have with them. I treat the friends with great curt and handle them with heart. The number of friends I have itself is indicative that I am very friendly with them. I make sure none of my friends are hurt by me.
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lieanat
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 08
Oh, I see. I'm glad for your friends to have you as their friend. I believe some of my friends are like you, but not all! Thanks for your comment.
Blinda
@Blinda (26)
• China
6 Jun 08
Some people tell me i was very friendly ,because i am very honest !
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lieanat
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 08
I bet honesty is very important in a friendship, but it wasn't a criteria to rate friendliness. Anyway, thanks for your comment.