Is it a must for everyone to have a love during his university period?
By xiaosuiyang
@xiaosuiyang (14)
June 6, 2008 12:47am CST
I'm a undergraduate in a small but not bad university.For some reasons ,the boys are less and not the ideal type i like.At the same time i'm a tradional girl often nervous during talking to a male stranger.many my old friends advised me to find a lover and said i should have one or my univesity period would be wasted.
Though i'm a happy girl with many girl friends ,i sometimes feel puzzle and upset.Can you help me and give me some solution?
4 responses
@summerrain (355)
• China
6 Jun 08
I think it is not necessary.you should not be forced to do something,especially the love.Let it be.And try to spent your university life fully and happily will be more important than others.
@xiaosuiyang (14)
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6 Jun 08
Thanks.As you said,i had tried to do intersting things and knew many good friends.That makes me busy but full eveyday.Maybe i just should be myself.
@fratertelo (247)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 08
I think you have no problem at all. So, you do not need a solution. You enjoy with your condition now, dont you? You feel happy, dont you? So, just go on with your study. It makes your parent be proud of you.
@xiaosuiyang (14)
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6 Jun 08
Thanks. Its my best friend'words made me a little worried,but ive come back .I guess you must have childen for you make me remember my mother.
@Zergonipal (807)
• Poland
9 Jun 08
This should be just your decision. I think that it isn't a must. Why it should be? It's your body not university property. If you want a lover, find one. If you don't want any so just study hard and look for real love. Just don't believe that YOU MUST something like this. Even if you would be the last one without it trully only shows your will, not any kind of weakness. If someone will try to lough from it then you can be sure that this person just is just envy.
