Seeing, dating, or "going out" with someone???

Hm, for me, it seems that you're just her/his bed buddies. If you guys are dating that why no one knows about it? Why should you hide it? Maybe she/he just take advantage on you. And maybe they knw you like them and doing this to you w/o you realize it. But otherwise, they might likes you too and waiting for you to take the next step; ask her/him to be your gf/bf. You just follow your instinct in this matter. And for your second question, if am dating with someone, which is i am dating with someone right now:) My current bf. And i dont think i can date or doing stuff with other person. That is just not fair. And i believe in karma. If i do this, someday i'll get back. What goes around comes around:)

Youre not doing anything.. so its ok to see others. thats the beauty of it. i like that better than relationships because it causes less stress. youre free to do anything you want. I don't know, maybe I'm just enjoying the single life right now.

I think that you and he/she are just friends who are sleeping together. If you are more committed to each other then you would be considered to be dating but seeing as it looks like the two people are not spending much time together they probably are not dating. I would suggest talking about it openly just to clear things up. If you are seeing someone and sleeping with him/her I don't think that it would be ok to see and sleep with other people. If you are just seeing each other casually and not sleeping together then it would probably be ok to see other people until you decide to make some sort of committment to only see each other.