Should I make contact?
By dlm6171
@dlm6171 (60)
Trinidad And Tobago
June 6, 2008 9:55am CST
While trying to find old friends on the net I came across someone with my old b/f name . Maybe it could be him? I am not sure, I know that we are both married now. Should I drop him a few lines , I got an email addie . Or should I think of it as two ships that passed by in the night?
2 responses
@optimisticgrl23 (397)
• United States
6 Jun 08
I think it all depends on how the relationship ended and how you feel about him. If you have any doubts about your feelings for him, then I would just leave it alone and not worry about it. You also have to be prepared if he does not return your messages. Are you going to be really upset? How does your husband feel about it?
@dlm6171 (60)
• Trinidad And Tobago
6 Jun 08
I really am at a lost as to how it ended a lot had to do with the fact that I was young between 16-19 yrs. and my parents were not at all supportive. I guess they saw me married with children , not being able to use my education in the way I was suppose to.I guess I could ask him what he remembered , but I think I rather not. I mean if it is him He has a whole new life , married at least for 13 years with two sons.I am married for 10-11 yrs. My marriage is strong. I do not want to do anything to upset that. Thanks for your concern, my husband just smiled. He knows that we do not have secrets from each other.
@lauri_90 (25)
• Ireland
6 Jun 08
How did you react when you saw his name? did you smile? did you panic?
I don't think there is any harm in trying to make contact, or make contact to see if that's him.... Surely you can still be friends!!!!
Most of the time I regret of the things that I haven't done rather than the ones I have done!!!
I would go ahead and ask if that's him!!!
@dlm6171 (60)
• Trinidad And Tobago
6 Jun 08
Yes Lauri, I smile in fact I told my husband , I saw ***** name. In fact he is a student Rev. now. We used to camp a lot (Church) I always wanted to get married to a Pastor. My dream did come through, my hubby and I have a very open relationship. I guess that helps us to have discussions on things that other people feel afraid to talk about.I think I will just send an email. If he replies then I will say who it is. I really do not want his wife to feel unhappy in any way. Maybe I might just be able to meet her and put a face to the Mrs. Thanks for your views. Appreciate much
