Help =(??
By KolaBabeah
@KolaBabeah (224)
United States
June 6, 2008 2:06pm CST
Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dateing for 10 monthzz.And I knew he had a past when I got with him.But I let it go.It's his past.Just something you gotta let go.Well all the sudden here comes something from his past.That got around.[[Supposibly his best friend braught it up.]]And so anyways.My boyfriend knows I don't trust anybody.Because I've been let down to much in the past.And Yesterday over the phone I told him he should know who he can and can not trust.I kinda wanna tell him that he shouldn't trust nobody.Because no one ever knows whos real and who's fake.Who's gonna be by his side in the end and who leave him there to defend on his own.But I also feel that if I tell him that.I might come between Him and his friendship.But I also feel if I don't tell him in the end.He's gonna get betrayed.Yes I do believe you gotta make your own mistakes to learn from them.But this isn't one of the ones I'm willing to let him make.What do you think I should do??
Plz help.
Thanx X0X0.
4 responses
@rkbassi (2)
• India
7 Jun 08
your boyfriend's what past don't care. see present and future. your love power will don't away your boyfriend but if he see your love and trust lost ,he will not stay with you love him not like a boyfriend love like a family mamber . he leave you but not your family its connect you forever.
my wishes with you sake love fulfilled.
@KolaBabeah (224)
• United States
7 Jun 08
Well I havent been able to talk to him about it.But I have decided to see what hapends before I talk to him about it.I'll let him bring uo the conversation first.Well I do love him like a family member because were engadge.And I love him more then anything in the world.
Thnx for your help=).
Xoxo.
@KolaBabeah (224)
• United States
6 Jun 08
Haha thnx mom.Well you know the things me&&Him have gone through to stay togetha.
&&You know weve been to He77 and back.And were still goin strong.Of course were in love you see how we acted when were togethha.I hope to never lose him 3 months and it will be a complete year.t!ll for3v3a =).
Xoxo
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
6 Jun 08
It is always better to be honest and sincere with each other. After all it is a relation important for both of you for the long run. Yes, past relations are matters of the past. But, one needs to be careful and faithful to make the present and the future happy for both.
@KolaBabeah (224)
• United States
6 Jun 08
Thanks for the help =).Thats also some good advice.I really appriciate it.I just hope he understands this to =).
Xoxo
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
6 Jun 08
That is a hard choice to have to make. Personally I would tell him how you feel. Dont "make" him choose. Just tell him what you think and that you hope he doesnt get screwed in the long run. My husband has a past too but like you said, it's his past. When ever I dont feel right or dont agree with something I always tell my husband. It's the best thing you can do for your relationship rather then just holding it in and getting more angry on the inside. Good luck. Also welcome to Mylot! @KolaBabeah (224)
• United States
6 Jun 08
Hmm thats great advice.Thanks for your help=).Me&&Him have been honest with each other from the start.&&I have a past to.That I've let go.And thnx for welcomeing me =).
