If your boyfriend cheated on you would you take him back?

United States
November 2, 2006 3:34pm CST
Would it depend on the situation? Why would you and why would you not?
11 responses
@aggiejoe (799)
• United States
9 Nov 06
My husband cheated on me once and I took him back after I made him beg and prove to me that he would be faithful to me. It took me a while to forgive him but we have two wonderful boys together and it was worth working things out.
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• United States
9 Nov 06
It is a good thing you gave him a second chance then . And i am glad you worked it all out. Sometimes it really does work out in the end especially if it is meant to be . Thank you for your great response.
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@michele609 (1687)
• United States
9 Nov 06
no I would not take him back, because of the fact that realtionships are about committnend. if you take him back, he would think that he can get away with again and that aint gona be happening!
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• United States
9 Nov 06
HEHEh well i agree there is always the chance he could do it again... But not all do it again. thank you for your response
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@Jshean20 (14348)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
Under no circumstance would I take him back...I'd be pretty hurt.
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• United States
6 Nov 06
yes there is no doubt it hurts, if you take them back or not . Bottom line it hurts.
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@Bettyann (2485)
• United States
8 Nov 06
no because he didn't love u enuff the frist time so he wouldn't care the second time
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• United States
8 Nov 06
I can tell you mean what you say when you say it dont you? lol..thank you for your direct response i appreciate your input =)
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@tmnjyk (3486)
• Canada
8 Nov 06
romance - romance, cheating, bf/gf
Oh, NO! Never! I would rather "find" --hahaha another. That's the #1 rule for me if I have a serious relationship, if I caught you cheating, you know what it meant? right? that's what I always tell to my bf, ahhaha...that is if I caught him! LOL.
• United States
8 Nov 06
It is important to stand firm on what you believe... Thank youf or your response =)
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• India
6 Nov 06
village..... - village
i cannot have a bf yaa i can have girlfriend & if she cheated me came back i would accept her but only if i trust her & ensures me that she wont do it again........
• United States
6 Nov 06
AHHH...nice point i should have put partner instead of boyfriend. thanks for the response Men are welcome too, since the ladies can also be the cheats.
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@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
2 Nov 06
No wouldn't bother with him any more. There are too true blue guys out there to stay and get hurt again by this guy.
• India
2 Nov 06
Cheating?? Well, it depends on the Bond with which u r bounded with.... Mistakes are common, i mean, at some or other point of time.. even de girl must have also cheated but must have gone unnoticed.... So, I think, they shud be given a chance...
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• United States
3 Nov 06
Yes it does depend on the bond...and the extent of cheating too... and I would almost have to know the reason he cheated.... i do agress if it happened more then one time i would have to take a pass.... thanks for your response
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• United States
3 Nov 06
I would never take someone back if they have been unfaithful to me. If they do it once, they'll do it again. I don't think I could ever trust them again, I would always wonder if it was happening behind my back.
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• United States
6 Nov 06
Since trust is probably the biggest importance in a relationship. It could really make problems if you could not trust again You have made a good point. Thanks for your response
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@ZowieR (940)
• Canada
9 Nov 06
ya I would, cause hes taken me back in the same situation. you can forgive you jsut can't forget.
• United States
9 Nov 06
yeah to forgive is the easy part fergotting is a bit harder..but it does go away after they have proved themself after a long time... like 10 years or so ....lol
• United States
9 Nov 06
yeah to forgive is the easy part forgetting is a bit harder..but it does go away after they have proved themself after a long time... like 10 years or so ....lol
@magnet (2087)
• United States
9 Nov 06
no, without a second thought.