Fakers

I'm so glad that I don't have to fake. One of the reasons that I refused to do so right from the first of our relationship is so that he would learn to do things right. Imagine my delight to find out that he was a natural. I could probably count on one hand the times that he hasn't made me climax in almost 7 years.

I don't know who the real fakers are because I think if fakers admit that they're faking it then they're probably liars as well. Anyway my advice is to just find someone else so that you won't have to pretend anymore. Or perhaps there's a problem with you so you could try seeing a doctor or psychiatrist about your problem. It's really better to be honest all the time. Not only is it more rewarding for you but for the other person as well.

I have never faked it! Either it feels good or it does not! I think it is wrth learning or teaching to your partner, if you do not get enough "real" ones!

Hello Sahm35, When I am steady with a guy I might fake it once or twice but if it gets to be an all of the time thing, I would sit down and have a nice long talk with him. I would let him know whats going on and insist that he does something to fix the problem, weather that means seeing a doctor or what ever else it would need to get fixed. I couldnt live a lie just so he could feel good about himself. Hugs, Tianna

Ok... Don't fake it... If my girl-friend faked it, it would hurt my feelings more then if she didn't... My girl-friend & I, not everyday but often enough, talk about what we like & don't like, what makes us feel good... Try that sometime... It might work out better for ya, instead of faking...

So far I didn't fake if I have not enjoyed then I just let him know about it straightly and he likes that also. We both want to share with out hiding. Anyways we harldly meet each other and if we get a chance and there is no one to disturb then we will go ahead. As we are not yet married so my mother doesn't allow me to go with him alone. I don't know if I had to face this in future but I am sure he will make me feel satisfied. No Fakes please!!