How would u feel if ur partner ogled at some1 on the street?
By keep_onwatch
@keep_onwatch (2680)
India
June 7, 2008 8:17am CST
Yeah how would u feel if he/she did it when you r beside them? My husband often does that when outside, and i have to start a conversation or just embarass him by knocking on his head to get him out of it. Nope, i dont fight over it after wards, its just his matter to deal with. Even i do find ppl attractive, i mean every1 does, But im way too shy even for a second look. So what would u do if ur partner ogled at some1?
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6 responses
@sweet_melody (190)
• Philippines
8 Jun 08
For me.....its just common for others to appreciate others beauty......if ever he will do it to other girls its fine for me as long as he will just look for a second and then its over but if he will stare for almost a million seconds that is the time I will react.....
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
8 Jun 08
Yeah thast the thing..to let it go and dont make it too uncomfortable...
@iftikharsumn (1471)
• Pakistan
8 Jun 08
if my partner do i will just smile nothing to say
because i think every one have a heart
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
8 Jun 08
Well sure, but it has more to do with mind than heart...and appreciating is okay, but to the point till it gets uncomfortable is not....
@redyellowblackdog (10629)
• United States
7 Jun 08
If my partner ogled someone, I'd be feeling she might be in the mood and take her someplace private to find out.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Well it is pretty awkward for me since I am a man and my wife does not do that for me. My wife understand if ever I admire someone else if I am with her. She is pretty well aware that despite that I am still in love with her if ever I do admire other girl's beauty. I am pretty sure your husband might feel a little bit awkward or a bit ashamed of himself especially when you are in public. But I hope he does not take it against you.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
7 Jun 08
Okay i better write this on the first post itself, i dont do that embarassing thing everytime....i just dont care at first but when he does that so continuosly to the point that it gets uncomfortable for all of us...like we r sitting in a cafe n having coffee...so thats a huge time, and if he does that like he has never seen any1 like that...i sure do that and no it doesnt embarass him, he just laughs out and doesnt do it again, but 4 me its embarassing....
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
8 Jun 08
I did, and he is still dealing with it, but i myself, cant even lift up my head, i mean im too shy...thats how i was and thats how i am ...
@simran11977 (88)
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10 Jun 08
Hi I understand who u feel because sometimes my finance does it to me and I told him about it.And he said I just look but that does not mean I don't love /appricate your beauty/affication.So don't worry about it stay cool/calm after all u are his wife.God Bless.
