Will I Scare Her by showing her How I * Really Am *?

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OK, so a couple of months ago I found a girl online that I actually really did like very, very, very much, really a lot. I've Identified myself with her and she's just the kind of person that fulfils me... I know, I know, that's too lame, but I just want to make sure you realize how much I care about not screwing things up with her. We then decided to meet each other, just to be sure we're both for real. A week has gone by since then and we're starting to gradually increase our intimacy (where are you, what are you thinking right now, what are you gonna have for dinner, and other private stuff), which leads to the issue itself. *************************************************************************** For the first part I'm gonna give a short background on me here, you see... I'm the kind of guy that actually had a first person perspective into how harsh life can be, at age 5 I was the kid that would look at you being picked up by your parents at school and then after everyone leave I would sit in the garden watching the birds and sunset dreaming and throwing rocks at the lake and eventually walk back home by myself. I also lost my parents and grew up to be a teenager that learned the importance of having enough power of will to save one's life in harsh situations when I was homeless and starving for an entire cold winter at a certain stage of my life, I then grew up to be 18 and I found out how much more lame being buried in debt to your neck was, cause I spent a few years there too. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not in desperate need for love, but all that harshness eventually carved a hole for human affection inside of me that I think this girl can satisfy. OH NO, a needy guy in desperate pursue of love... this smell like bad trouble :) But all this I have already shared with her, and she actually enjoyed that I did. But I still have to tell her the second, more fun and potentially dangerous part. Cause you see, I'm now 26, I ended up being an engineer, I became a wealthy man, I've got a vacation beach house, a super car, I've improved the skinny malnourished body that I had and sculpted it during the last 6 years into a well nourished, fluffy, well rounded, muscular body (just the way I really wanted) and I have the freedom to do my crazy favourite radical sports like hang gliding, aikido, swimming, bodybuilding, sleeping & eating a lot :), to travel whenever I feel like to, to express myself in art and science, and lately to dedicate some of my life to giving back to society cause I pretty much like to make this world a better place (at least better than what it was for me). *************************************************************************** And this last part is the one she's not aware of. I mean I am that great guy she likes cause I have great values, I'm honest and I like animals and helping the needy, etc, but suppose what happens when I say: "Oh, and by the way I also like fast cars, boats,parties , radical sports, travelling whenever I feel like to, go to wherever I wan to and meeting new people, new cultures and costumes, new languages finding new businesses :), etc, etc, etc, etc". (I actually have a lot of free time). Now I had my previous disappointments too, once I even had a girl that actually stopped talking to me only because I told her I gad a passion for super cars (I just told her and explained how I came to develop a passion for that) and she went like "OMG, do you understand that those are the cause of global warming and the melting of ice caps and bla, bla, bla". I mean, of course I do and I always did (but it's not my car that is going to kill the planet, I mean potatoes also cause cancer but no one eats 20 pounds of potatoes a day), otherwise I wouldn't have tuned the engine to run on bio fuel in order to pollute less than the carbon dioxide that she expels through her nose every time she breaths and still deliver 250 more bhp ;) I guess one can see a person's nature just by letting him or her assume whatever he or she likes to, you know... and I don't care if it's my fault that she had that reaction, cause at least I got to see how she really was, which saved me a lot of time and probably many headaches and future discussions. Anyway this girl I'm dating is very sweet and she's not that close minded at all and she's a courageous girl, which is why I lover her way of being so much, but before I start mentioning more things about myself to her I would like to get other mylotters opinions on this. What can I do to make sure this works, cause unfortunately relationships are not one of my strong areas of expertise?