as wife....or mom?

Your right, balancing between a mom and a wife is one of the major problems in every woman who has there own family. Obligation had to be grown farther than you expected when the kids grown up. You're attention will be more on your children rather your husband because you will feel that is the right thing to do. Sad to say that is the wrong move..You can't choose between your children and your husband. You have to balance our time, love and affection between them even it's become harder on your part. Every time you had that complicating situation, just remember that they are your family. Maybe you will lost your temper and patient for them and that is normal, were only human but I know in your heart your love for them is eternity. And the most important thing is don't forget to pray, Jesus will guide you every step of the way.

I've been married for almost 7 years and a mom to an almost 5 year old boy. There were times that I felt as if I'm torn between my duties as a mom and wife. There was even a period in my marriage that my husband felt a little jealous over the attention I was giving to our son. It is a balance that should be carefully and tactfully considered. It's not easy but it is our role. It's a challenging role to have but in some ways, it is humbling. I've read something a few years back saying that a wife doesn't have the excuse of taking less care of her husband because of the kids. It doesn't mean that he's the adult, he can take care of himself and not to expect much from his wife and that he should readily accept and understand that their kids need his wife's tender, loving care than him. With or without kids, a wife should still remember that she has responsibilities to fulfill. And it's up to her how she balance her dual role. But it's very important that she does both responsibilities in the best way that she can.

Beside time which you spend for your children, you have to spend for your husband. You have to balance this. But this is difficult for you to do it everytime. Sometimes you will fell over tired.You busy social work. The work makes your mind'untidy.You will be stress.Therefore, you will take care of everyone in your familly. You need relax. It help you very much.

I think the first thing you should do is ask God for guidance and he will set the table for you.

Most mom spend their time taking care of their little ones but we shouldnt forget our responsibility of being a wife to our husband. We should learn how to balance those two tasks and we shouldn't prioritize only we one. We should prioritize both. i love my baby and husband so much. And im willing to do everything and anything for them.