Are you honest to your boyfriend/girlfriend?

Thanks for sharing, Che. Dishonesty is my biggest pet peeve and annoyance in the world! Now you see why, and of course, you understand why I feel this way. I'm sorry for you to have to have such hard times and experiences. However, your partner has done things that cause you not to trust, so those feelings you have are completely normal. Good for you for sticking up for what you feel in your heart is the right and wrong to do. Keep up the good work and all with work out for you.

Hi jj, Back in the beginning we can be the best couple that you can see, or one of them.But since he hurt me so badly emotionally everything change but atleast i want try to make it work but since he broke a promise and go to the boundary of becoming dishonest it is hard for me to believe him already.I give him a chance so i want to give him also a chance to trust him.But evrytime i keep telling myself or convincing my self.That he is honest w/ me but i dont trust him.He broke the very important thing in relationship and that is honesty, and being faithful. That right if you know the person well you can even tell if he is lieying or not or if he is just making a joke.And thats my partner doesnt know.When the first time it happened i know exactly what is it.So i asked him if he can just get that courage to say and tell me honestly what was going on.But then he lied, so i waited for how many days so he can tell it to me even i know it already.I just want that it came from his own.BUt he dont have that courage so i started it to tell him what i know.I never though he is going to do things like that to hurt me so badly.But sh*t things happen to life.Trying to move on and forget the fast or atleast if cant forget it just put it behind me. I am so glad JJ that you and you fiancee honest to each other.I know exactly what you mean about he just take it because his concerned for how it affect you. I been so very proud at him in many ways.I just hope i can do the say and learn how to do that again. I am happy for you that you got that 100% feelings of trust.Your lucky to have that feelings..have a nice day my friend..keep on smiling...Smile make the world better..Hehehehe Greetings from Che!

Hi Yullar, That is so sweet of you to say that.I hope that my partner can be like a crystal to me.Yes i think that can help that you are in the same school and same age then you have no fear and not shy to each other to share each other words.I am so glad that you can talk your gf like that.Well most of the woman have instinct,we can feel it there is something wrong , or something happen..And some people is not very good in words just like my partner he cant never be serious.If i tried to talk to him about my feelings he changed the topic. He know he cannot give any good advice or comments on what i am going to say. But i know he undestand me and that is good enough for me. have a nice day my friend and enjoy posting.. Greetings from Che!

That would be a relief if you can do that.if you can tell him everything that happened to you.

Some other guy doesn't wanna talk about feelings.But i think these kind of kind is so cold.He cannot understand you as long as you cant tell him your feelings.i know somebody is like that.Everytime her gf tried to open some serious conversations he tried to avoid it ,or he said we will talked later!

Yes i understand i got the same feelings sometimes.That i cant tell him everything but that doesnt mean that i dont trust him.

Hi agladiator, NIce to have you here..You will find a very special gf soon.Just give it some time.That very good if you can tell her everything..Take care my friend.. Greetings from Che!

yes it is very nice to have that relationship.I agree,relationship have to be a bothways and trust.But sometimes things happened in life that you have to do things that you dont want to do.And then becouse of it you have to be dishonest to your loveone.I know it sounds cruel but its really happened i just wish not w/ us..jesbellaine..I am happy that you can tell everything to your bf.

I remembered what my grandma said to me"Che The things that you dont like,dont do it to other people" I hate dishonest people too but i have onething i cannot say to my bf, coz i dont want to hurt him, and i want to protect him in anyharm.

I can imagine how you feel.If somebody constatly lied to you you will feel betrayed, and dont trust anything that he said i been there.So even he keep telling the truth sometimes it is hard to believe.But i can understand also sometimes people have to lie for them to keep thier loveone not to be hurt that lie called whitelies.But that makes him not right to be constanly lying.Mybe he is afraid w/ you.