Would you continue a relationship with someone who cheated on you?

For me?its a big answer "NO".I will not continue the relationship with her if she cheated me.Once she did that thing there is a tendency happen again.

First of all I have to talk her/him and ask him the truth .Maybe I give him/her one more chance and if he/she cheated again theres no way I stay .I would rather have a broken marriage than your living together with no love or trust at all...

It depends but I just did this once with my first boyfriend. He did it thrice. I told him 3 is enough and maybe the 4 will be NO MORE NO LESS "good bye".

hell no but i would also think about her reaction to he issue but generally it wuold really have alasting scar to mi relationships with her, so better just separate abit.kilimanjaro.

i will forgive if the reason is genuine and she accepts her mistakes and feel sorry for it from the heart. the feeling should be from the heart and not from the words

I have been in the similar situation just recently and sad to say, I am still going out with the same person. Yes yes, I maybe stupid but I think he deserves another chance (after showing up with hickies on his neck --yes it was very painful, call me a martyr, a saint or whatever) but I have come to understand that the Lord forgives and so do I, after all...I still love the person, although it is hard to trust him again, but I'm sure everything will be alright...I can see that his daily effort just to show how much he loves me and he admitted that it was a total mistake. I don't know if I would believe to the saying that "love is sweeter the second time around" Does anyone actually believe that?

I feel like you on this one. I think I would have to know a bit more about what had happened. Was it a one night thing? Is it lust or love? It would also matter how it came to my attention. A cheat and liar would be worse than a cheater.

My answer is a Big NO, because if he cheated to me once he will surely do that again. thats why for me, i dont give a second chance. thanks

No, I wouldn't be able to trust him again.

Good day.. yes it would be hard specially when you love and trusted your partner that much. If there is still enough love to work on and I can forgive her then maybe just maybe it will work. Though she has to give me some slack if I became suspicious because like it or not she has to earn my trust back and I also believe the circumstances would be the same if the situation is reversed. Since I married her and I love her, for the sake of that love and that of our children I'll try very hard to swallow my pride, forgive her, and eventually learn to love and trust her, the way i used to. But it's gonna be very very hard.

I wouldn't stay with someone who cheated on me. Once a cheater always a cheater. My little "rule" is always if you want to be with, and sleep with, someone else...leave me first so that I can move on with my life. Don't sneak around behind my back and have me thinking everything is okay. That's not fair. You can't have me AND them. It doesn't work like that.

This is such a hard question. The bible does give cheating as 1 of the reason to get a divorce, but doesn't say you have to. I speak from 1st hand experience, this is one of the hardest things in life to deal with, especially if you have children. Over 10 years ago I caught my husband with someone else. I told him I would allow him to have his kids anytime he wanted, but to leave me alone! Which he did not. After about a year of HELL with this other woman, I let him move back in. I thought we could move past this. Gosh!, I just didn't know how hard it would be. The forgiving and trust issues lingered for years! To be able to describe most of this would take a very long time and some is hard to describe in words. If you put your heart, mind and soul to it you can find forgiveness ans trust again, but it is hard. I liked to not had what it took to hold on. I can honestly say almost 11 years later, we have a good marriage, but it didn't come easy. Some people do not want or can't deal with the heart ache that cheating brings and will get a divorce in a heart beat. Forgiveness is the main ingredient to getting over such a thing. I also can honestly say if my husband had not help work with me for us to get through this, we couldn't have made it. So, its a 2 way street.

Em, if you ask my boyfriend, he'll probably say yes since i did some nasty things to him few years back;| I didn't cheat on him. Never wanted it to be this way. ;( Well, my ex - my first love came back to me. And he's been calling me baby and sweet words. I didn't tell my boyfriend cause I'm afraid if he get pissed and punch my ex's face. But then, one day, he found out about that and really disappointed with me and asking for a break;| Yeah, we broke up for about 2weeks. I never meant to break his heart. I just wanna give my ex his own medicine:| So, I thought he would never forgive me. But instead of that, he kept chasing me and loving me in that '2weeks'. While my fcking ex, do nothing and expect me to go back with him? NO WAY! I just wanna play some 'revenge' to my ex after what he has done to me. But it ended up differently:| I broke my bf's heart, not his! Well. right now I'm still with the same person who I'd broke his pure heart few years ago - my current bf:) And it's been 3 years now and i really wanna have my future with him

Until now I haven't thought about that. BUT here as cure as founded two ways. You can cheat your partner like he/she made with you, or divorse with him/her.

I agree with you on that but I would consider giving him another chance if he gives me one good reason why I should.But if I already gave him too many chances,then I'll dump him for good...after that terrible thing he did to me.

I have cheating boyfriend before. When I knew about it, first thing that crossed my mind was to end the relationship and never to see that fella again. I did feel very sad initially but I have never regretted my action. If he can cheat on me once, he can cheat on me twice. He has tried calling me a few times before but I never picked up. I think time can heal wounds. Recently he called again and I didn't even know it's him as I had deleted his number from my mobile phone. I do not even remember his number now(I used to remember).

I would never consider continuing a relatioship with someone who cheated on me....why? BEcause if they cheat it is obvious they do not love me and they dont care about my well-being because they slept with someone else who may have had AIDS or other STD and could bring it back to me.....I would not want to be with someone who has that much disregard for my feelings and my health.

you're so right!! but if the victim,or the innocent is self dependent,then he/she should no longer be in a relation,as it can encourage the deciever to carry on his act.. rather just let him go..If he would truely repent later in his life,then he may be forgiven or not depends on how soft your heart is!!

I personally wouldn't continue that kind of relationship. But it's been said that cheating isn't the worst thing one could do in a marriage. Whatever could be worse than that, I really have no idea. But still, no.

Well, its very hard to answer it "no" especially if you have a child and if you love him/her so much. and also i agree with others saying that if GOD forgive why cant we forgive, But, if he/she always cheating you, i think finalize your decision not to continue the relationship and make yourself happy to find someone the right person for you to share love till the rest of your life. LETS NOT CHEAT OUR PARTNERS.