How you share equal love to your kids?

@lieanat (1137)
Malaysia
June 8, 2008 7:41pm CST
I have 5 siblings in my family. Often times, I felt neglected and even up till today. My words or speech often denied by my siblings and my mother won't bother about it. I just feel that my mum care for others more than me. So, just want to know is there any mother in mylot can really love their kids equally? Or they also having similar problem in my mum? Do you know one of your kids feel despise?
2 responses
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
9 Jun 08
hello lieanat,i dont know about it coz i have only ne kid.but what i have heared they love equally of course its our kid! but the probs is you cannot do it in one time to show your love equally coz of their age gap.but you can show it equally by raising them well and have proper education thanks.
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@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 08
Thanks for your suggestion. I think your way is working. Have a nice day.
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 08
Hi, I'm not married yet. But I like kids. Hope that I'll have one soon.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
10 Jun 08
welcome lieanat,enjoy your day with your kids:)
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@ZephyrSun (7381)
• United States
9 Jun 08
You should try having 8 siblings LOL I am somewhere in the middle. I would have to tell you that I have one child that is demanding and has a lot of behavioral issues so a lot of my time is taken up by him. I have gotten better about now allowing this to happen as often. My oldest child was at one point feeling like you and I had no idea until he told, and I explained to him that his brother required more of my time than he did, but he and I would set a time when we could have time together and he had me fully. Sometimes he would pick what we would do and sometimes I would pick what we did. Most of the time he picked he would pick something that would help me around the house, it was very neat and very considerate of him.
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@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
9 Jun 08
Thanks for your comment here. How wise and nice your oldest son is. I wish my mum will be like you too. Have a nice day.