children with disabilities

I myself am actually disabled. I am confined to a wheelchair and have been for my whole life. So i know what its like to be treated differently for being disabled. So i do try to help if i am able to but being disabled myself its not always easy to assist someone else who is disabled.

I do agree with you kerriannc ! Everyone in the world need to be rsepct .And we should share our love with everyone . I never stare at any of them ,but the feeling of pitying . You know they become disabled because some unknown reaons ,maybe they are born like that or in their latter life ... But their problem and living is a part of our human society ,it shows how our social is ,show the government's work ,stand for our citizens' civilized degree ... And for me ,as a member of my world ,I will do him/her a favor ,even just a smile or a word for care ...

Both of my sons have special needs, so we see children with all sorts of disabilities when I take them to therapy. We don't stare. I used to as a child, but I think that is a kid thing, especially since there weren't many disabled kids around us. Now, having special needs kids of my own, I know how important it is to treat them like you would anyone else. Just a smile can go a long way. They don't want to be made to feel different so they shouldn't be treated that way. I don't help them unless they ask, other than to hold a door open, which I would do for anyone if I get to the door first. Most of the children are fiercely independent and like to do things for themselves.

I understand totally where you are coming from. These children are so pitiful. If there is anything that I can do for them I certainly try. My son has autism. He is able to function fine but it is still there. Most people are very undersatnding and will talk to him and listen to what he has to say. Ever once in a while someone at school will be ugly to him but it is much better than what it used to be. He is very tender hearted and when he sees anyone having trouble he wants to help them (on crutches, in a wheelchair, etc.). I have to remind him that he needs to ask them first before automatically trying to do anything, though, because sometimes they don't want help. This is a wonderful discussion my friend!!

hello dear, that is a very gesture from your end. firstly i never look at disabled children and stare at them, i always treat them like a normal child. never make them feel that they are in anyway different. There is a child who stays in my building and whenever i see him, i treat him like all the children playing and talk very normally with him. Yes i would always help a child whether disabled or not.

I think it would depend if they needed help or not if they were alone then chances are they would be capable of doing most things their selves. My partners sister is severly disabled and she cant look after herself at all so doesnt go out alone. I would never look down on anyone wether they had a disability or not.

As an adult (now) with a disability, I remember the adults who looked at me with scorn. I think it's great that you want to help kids with disabilities. My advice, however, is ask if they need help first. Sometimes they're just taking longer to do something, but are quite proud of doing somethime by themselves.

I have a nephew with the Down sindrom and I love her very much!

children with disabilities are still just kids and they need the same love and caring as any other child. We' should treat them just the same way we treatour own kids with love and respect and a big smile too. and always offer a helping hand.

I agree even something as small as a smile will brighten anyones day. Disabled children are the most loving and caring people. I see many time in stores when there is a disabled child around parents of normal kids tend to move their kids away from the disabled ones, I have seen this even at parks it is as though the parents of the normal kids think a disability is contaigeous their kids might catch it if they get near them. That sort of attitude disgusts me and it seems to happen more so in the richer crowds, the poor people allow their kids to play with the disabled but not the upper class crowd. It so saddens me to see this a disabled child or any child for that matter does not understand rejection but they do feel it and a child should never ever have to feel that.

I fully agree with u they have equal right at being loved and given security..if i see a disabled child in need of help i will surely help out if the child is trying on its own then i will wait..if the kid is unsuccessfull in attempts then i wud go ahead and help..we need to help them but we also need to allow them to b strong and independent as much as possible ...we must encourage them to b self reliant bcoz finally they have to face this same cruel world..have a nice day..

I would ask first. Some may not want help and will be offended by just helping with asking first.

When I grew up My mother taught me allot, she used to baby sit a few handicapped kids, Then after awhile I helped out by doing it 3 times a week for about 2 years. But only for an hour or two. It was sad, kids in there teens drinking from a bottle or fed by spoon baby food and couldn't talk. When I read them a book they may not have under stood. but they did smile. I believe It was they where getting attention if not ant thing else. I know they had special schools for them as they went every day by wheel chair. I haven't done this since I was 16 years old. But, I do still support the special Olympics and others when I can.

LOVE THIS POST! I have always loved children with disabilities. Everytime I see a child with a disability my face lights up with a smile. They are so innocent and trusting and they love attention. I will also say that I feel the same way about adults with disabilities. I remember about 3 weeks ago I was in an elevator with a women in a wheelchair who had cerebral palsy. She could not talk she could only make noises. I remember smiling so much because her and her personal care assistant had just come in from the rain and she loved it! Her PCA kept asking her if she liked the rain and she had a grin from ear to ear. So I guess I could say that I LOVE people with disabilities of all ages,and think that people should just see them as they would see any other person.

I never stare at children with disabilities.I smile at them and make conversation with them.These children are special children.I admire the way some parents handle their children's disability.They go all out to see what best can be done.Some children excel with so much of attention.If they are handled well they do show improvement.They have abilities like painting ,using the computer so many things they learn.Yes I agree with even a smile can make their day.

Throughout my life I've tried to help anyone with a disability.Now I'm disabled.The town I live in is very small so the majority of adults know me.Several people will help me. I thank them for it too!!

hi. My son has physical disabilities. He's turning 9 but his leg muscles are not as strong as a normal kid. He has Spina Bifida which is a spinal nerve problem, that's why his lower extremities are not strong enough. He could walk and run but as I said,not like any normal kids. Anyway, If I see kids with disabilities, I would check if they need some help or assistance. I have learned from my son, that sometimes, he wants to try and do things on his own. He knows his capabilities.So, without offending a disabled person, I'd help if I think and see if they need it. They sometimes have to push themselves just to know how far they can do things.I wouldn't look down on them. I will always lend a helping hand to those in need even if they are not disabled..

I would love to help them. But I haven't given a chance to meet children with disabilities who really need that kind of assistance. There are a couple of students here in our school who are special child. They are happy people with a shallow personality. Easy to get hurt(emotionally), to be happy and mostly wild. They are adorable. They can make you laugh most of the time.

I have a brother that is down syndrome and autistic so i am one that always helps. In fact its my job. I take care of people with disabilities. It breaks my heart when people stop and stare. It ticks my off when like my brother tries to interact with someone and they brush him off because he is different. He might not be what they consider normal, but he is still a human being and deserves respect.

Having children with disabilities I find it a sore spot when people stare at my children. I know they are curious but I would rather people ask about the disabilities then just staring at them. I don't stare and if I do see some one with difficulties due to their disabilities I ask if they need help first before assuming they need help. Disabilities is not what makes a person, only a part of the person. I don't view my children's disabilities (or anyone's disabilities) as a disability at all, it's just who they are and not what they are.