girls are more trustworthy than males?

girls - a woman playing
India
June 9, 2008 12:20am CST
i'm not being harsh towards boys but i have experienced it. you may wonder why i am supporting girlsgirls?well,i used to share my secrets with my friends when i was small.but usually it was my male friends who used to spread that secret. i think most males are more mean and selfish including me.i think they can't stand other boys being more popular than them. according to me females have a bigger heart and they have that motherly kind of love.not true though but true in most cases.they are more understanding. so do you agree with my statement??? think hard!!
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16 responses
• India
10 Jun 08
i completely agree with you, i think girls have less ego problems with guys, than guys with guys!!!
@steve9737 (918)
• Colombia
9 Jun 08
I agree with some other people commenting here, It depends more in the person than in the gender, some people just can't keep a secret, and they are going to spread something even when it is something very personal, I have learned that is better don't say something that you don't want to be know for others, I think I am trustworthy enough to keep a secret but anyway you know everyone like to talk without think about it, and maybe like other people I would to say something that I was trust, I have both friends males and females and they are all different so it is not for their gender, it also is about how much that person want you like a friend or if they are just being your friends for something they need or they want, I think the problem with your friend would have been that he doesn't think before to talk, you are right about the part where you say the girls has a bigger heart but it doesn't mean they can keep a secret better, like I say if you don't want something to be spread is better to keep it in secret and don't say it to anyone.
@manu619 (450)
• India
9 Jun 08
Not everyone.. Some boys and some girls are trustworthy.. Not only boys or girls are trustworthy..
@koolkate (241)
• Bahrain
9 Jun 08
I agree with you but there are some girls who just blow off the secrets, I think it mostly depends on the person.
@gamanuga (10)
• Peru
9 Jun 08
i think that man are better to friends relationship.. sometimes women can be a little evil when the things dont go the way she wants.. and is truht they are more sebsitive and all that stuff but than is only convenient and perfect in certain situations....
@nupats (3564)
• India
9 Jun 08
i m sorry to say i being a woman must say tht u cannot generalise such a thing infact i think guys are more trustworthy bcoz they dont indulge in gossips much they may try making pass at ur girlfriend but men will b men...i m sure ur girlfriends best friend will b knowing wtever the secrets may be bcoz tht is all abt girly talk..maybe after some more years and maturity u may b able to understand this better...try sharing secrets now tht u r a grown up teenager with ur male friends again...there is no harm in trying out..girls are still good and do have a large heart but teenagers like to talk in their group..have a nice day
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
9 Jun 08
Well, we cannot tell who will a real friend unless we prove it. I have a best friends a GIRL and a BOY. Definitely, GIRLS and BOYS have different personality and perspective in life. I used to confide secrets from them but I discovered something, I can trust my BOY best friend, because he never fails me until now not like my girl best friend. Some BOY are really "KISS and TELL" because they want to prove to other boys or friends that they are really in. I'm just quite disappointed with a person like this. But when it comes to FEMALE whom I know I can really trust is my sister,we can tell that almost girls are really trust worthy most especially in the family circle.
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
9 Jun 08
i think both are same..maybe you always found a wrong person to trust to or the people around you are like that..But people are people its there choice if they will be trusted of not
@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
9 Jun 08
depends I guess on the person.
@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
9 Jun 08
I honestly dont think either one is more honest then the other. I've known guys that I could trust with my life if I had to and I've known girls that would take your secret to the grave. It doesnt matter what gender they are, just choose your friends wisely. Yours truly, Tianna
• United States
9 Jun 08
guys are more trustworthy to me.. other females will screw over one another to win out in the end over whatever they want or think the other one wants.. i have never been screwed over by a male friend unless i had dated or was dating him haha.. although i have found that there is like a ton less topics to talk to guy friends about but what i have talked about and trusted my guyfriends with has stayed safe.. cant even count how many times ive been screwed over by female friends.. and the closer they get the more i get screwed over so im way more paranoid about new female friends than male ones..
• India
9 Jun 08
trust does not depend on gender yaar!it depends on the teachings given to the male or female by their parents and friends.
• Poland
9 Jun 08
I think that this depends only on the person, not gender. I saw in my live many secretspreaders male and female in the equal number.
@ryozen (92)
• Philippines
9 Jun 08
Being trustworthy is not based on gender. It is rooted on the person's personality, which is primarily influenced by his/her environment, upbringing and self nurture. You can find a woman worth trusting but you can also find a woman who's meant to be avoided and this also goes for men.
• Philippines
9 Jun 08
i have lots of girl friends. And i really believe they are trustworthy but i don't agree with the comparison you are doing. I myself think that I am trustworthy. And if you are generalizing things here, I say boys are more trustworthy. Why? Because boys talk less. And boys listen well. If boys give their word, there is a bigger possibility that they will do it--word of honor should i say. But i am not discounting anything about the trustworthiness of girls. It is just that, in general, boys are more trustworthy---in my opinion. :D
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
9 Jun 08
Well I agree and don't agree at the same time. It really depends on the people we meet. As for me, I would say that girls are more trustworthy as well since I have more female friends than male (65-70% are girls). But most of my male friends are trustworthy though. I was just lucky to have encountered them in my life. We don't know what lies ahead, I may encounter female friends that are not trustworthy or the other way around. I just go along.