will this love last long?

seems to me that whatever you say to your friend will not mean anything to her since she is madly in love with her man. when you say loves a guy for 4 years..does that mean that they are actually together? and how do you know what the guy feels about her? sometimes when we are sad or mad, frustated even we get to say stuff about the other that will make our friends and family get turned off. most of the time we say what we dont mean because we want sympathy. so even if she is still in love with him, friends and family are already mad at guy making the situation worst. if in this case, the guy has really lost interest in her, has he mentioned anything about breaking up? does he still call her? do they still go out on dates? What if the guy is really busy and the girl being overly in love doesnt know her limits, will text and call even if he is at work or at the meeting. what this relationship needs is good talking. if they have been together for more than 4 years, they could have already established a relationship where they can talk about almost anything. so the guy does not want to get married..how old are they? does your friend wanna get married now? she has to talk to him about plans in the future. if the guy does not want to get married yet..then maybe they can set a date and at least ask him what his priorities are.. but if he does not want to get married at all..then you really have to tell your friend that its a waste of time. if this is the case maybe you can help keep your friend distracted. get her to go out, watch a movie with you, introduce her to new friends and find her a new hobby.

Your friend needs strength so maybe you and her other girlfriends can help to make her stronger. First of all, she does not want a man who does not love her. Why waste her life in a relationship like that when there are many men she could meet in this world who would cherish her and make her happy? This is not the only guy in the world so you need to help her to see this. He has to have some faults that you can point out to her again and again to make him seem like a little less of a catch. You and your friends should take her out and do things to help to keep her mind off of this guy. Breaking up hurts but the hurt does not go on forever and how can she meet the right guy if she's hanging on to this one?