Wheel Chairs are hard to manuver

@1grnthmb (2055)
United States
June 9, 2008 4:44pm CST
You would not believe how hard it is to manuver a wheel chair around a small house. With Jenny coming home fromthe hospital on Saturday we are finding just how difficult it is. Every room is small in our house. Even the bathroom is not very wheelchair addaptible. We have to struggle with every where she wants to go. And getting her in and out of the car is a real chore.
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@jairgirl (2877)
• United States
10 Jun 08
hello, im sorry to hear about all this, i know what it is like coz i have seen it on tv and it is very very hard specially if the house is not wheel chair friendly. my estrange dad had an accident before he left us and he always complains about how the small house is terrible for his situation and it is nothing compared to someone who is using a wheel chair coz his is crutches. i hope you guys will get a lot of strength and patience to help her out in this very hard situation. i wish there is a way for me to help but i dont except for my prayers. wish you all the best. takecare
@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
10 Jun 08
Thank you so much. Prayers are a powerful thing. I think they are one of the major contributing factors for Jenny healing so fast.
@jairgirl (2877)
• United States
10 Jun 08
you're very much welcome. yes prayers with work will do a miracle. i am happy to know that she have the personality and spirit to make it all right. i wish her all the best and may she get well soon. have a good one!
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
10 Jun 08
Most homes are not built for handicapped access. Have you looked into the possibility of one of the new lighter weight w/c? It may not be anymore maneuverable around the house but should be easier to get in and out of the car.
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@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
10 Jun 08
This one is a rental and the only one that they had that met the physical therepist requirements. She had a big long list of things that the wheel chair needed to have. Don't even know what half the stuff is for.
@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
10 Jun 08
Forgot to mention that our home was built pre 1960 so it is not handicap accisible to one ioda. It makes it difficult some times even with my disabilities yet alone a wheel chair.
• United States
10 Jun 08
Are there any pieces of furniture and whatnot that could be moved out temporarily?
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@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
10 Jun 08
Hi Tannie We have moved the furniture around so we can get her into the different rooms. The only room that we could not move around was her bedroom so she is sleeping on a futon in the family room. Her bedroom has a bunkbed that she shares with her younger sister and it is to small and has a ladder screwed into place that blocks access to the bed. Mark
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Jun 08
I know that can be a real hassle. Do you have a large wheelchair or a smaller one. smaller ones are easier to manuever in small rooms. How much can Jenny walk? If she could walk a few feet it would help in tight bathrooms for example.AS for getting out of the car you need to let her put her hands on your shoulders and just back up a few feet to enable her to sit down in the wheelchair..
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@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
10 Jun 08
Unfortunatly it is a large one with her being 15 and 130 lbs. I do not know where the weight comes from because she is slender, She is not allowed to put any weight on her legs yet so she can not walk. She can get out of the car ith no problem. She just slides down the board. Getting in on the other hand is a chore. One of us has to get in the car to pull her while the other has to lift her up and help push her up the board into the seat. Not very easy since both Lori and I have bad backs.
@tdemex (3540)
• United States
9 Jun 08
I have great sympathy for you! I did construction for many years. I had to study all the HC rules and know they were there for a reason, I learned things you'd never think of, alot of times we had to use a specialist to interput the rules, they were a great help, and some were handicapped! If It's a perminent situation, look into federal, and other agencies for some help. I did some remodels for people that were being funded by an agency! Good Luck tdemex
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@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
10 Jun 08
That is really interesting. Luckly it is just temporary. They said any where between 4 to 8 weeks.
• United States
9 Jun 08
I wish your Jenny a swift recovery and I hope she's out of the wheelchair soon (if that's possible). I have bouts where I'm wheelchair bound, and it is a chore. I was living at an apartment and the doorframes weren't wide enough for me to easily fit through (not with my coordination, at least), so they were happy to take the doorframes out except for the front door. The bathroom I had was super tiny with a door that swung in, and having the door removed made it possible for me to use. Might not work for people who are super modest, but I'm a big proponent of getting things done as easily as possible. The hospital she was at should be able to put you in contact with a social worker that will evaluate your home for wheelchair ease and possibly assist in its modification. The second time I moved, the ramp was covered by my insurance company after the report from the social worker. Things will get easier once you get into a routine. I'll be wishing you lots of luck and tons of critical thinking energies to help you figure out how to rearrange furniture and rooms to make it less awkward!
@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
10 Jun 08
Thank you. The bathroom is the hardest room to get her into. The door is narrow. I did not think of removing it. Good Idea. Maybe if we hang a curtain in front so others will have their privacy.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
14 Jun 08
I can well imagine it Mark as you have not got the facility to have a Wheelchair around lol I hope that she will be able to start walking again soon so you will not have this Problem
@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
14 Jun 08
Hi Gaby It has been a week now since we brought her home form the hospital and it is not getting any easier to maneuver the wheelchair through the house. She well be in the chair for four to eight weeks I really hope that when she sees the Doctor on July Seventh that she will be allowed to start putting some weight on her legs. We finally have figured out how to get her in and out of the car when we have to go somewhere. She really wants to go to church tomorrow but I am thinking that we need to wait one more week for that adventure. Mark
@GardenGerty (160696)
• United States
10 Jun 08
There are some aids that you can buy to help her pivot out of the car or put her on a slick piece of fabric to make rotating easier. Park the wheel chair at a forty five degree angle toward the rear of the car, put the foot pedals back, lock the brakes, put hands under her arms and pivot with her to back up into the wheel chair. When my hubby was ill and in a wheel chair, for the duration of his illness we took the bathroom door off, and hung a fabric curtain over the doorway. Short of completely remodeling, this was the quickest way to solve that problem. Other times we found we could go backwards easier than forwards with the wheel chair. I hope this helps and wish you great success with her recovery. It will get easier with practice.
@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
10 Jun 08
Thank you for all the suggestions. They are really helpful. And you have gone through this so you know what you are talking about.
• Canada
9 Jun 08
I know all about that. When I was little, I had surgery on my legs. Not only was I in a wheelchair, I had my legs straight out on a board ifront of me, as I was not allowed to bend them till the casts came off. It was really something. Dad would yell at me every time I bumped into a wall.
@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
10 Jun 08
Hers is like that too. With braces on both legs to keep them straight.
@Geone1 (65)
10 Jun 08
I agree that some model houses these days are not adapted very well for the disabled folk, but I do think that as new houses are built I think they are now trying to adapted them so they are more wheelchair friendly, I have a few friends but they live in specially adapted bunglows which can accomodate for this. I do hope that they keep up with making sure that new properties coming out on the market are more wheelchair friendly as a standard requirement.
@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
10 Jun 08
The new laws that have gone into effect since the early 90's have made things so much better for handicapped people. We just watched the movie "The Music Within" and it does a wonder job of telling how these laws have gone into effect. Being disabled myself I am very greatful that these laws are there. And now having a daughter in a wheel chair it is especially apreciated.
@Timothy31 (649)
• United States
10 Jun 08
I understand how it is completely. Being in a wheelchair myself i know how hard it can be to get in and out of certain places.
@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
10 Jun 08
Thank you Timothy. It is not an easy thing. And I wish you also the best.
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10 Jun 08
I have never been in a wheelchair ,but i can image how hard it is to move in it .I had palyed in the chair with wheels ... Whatever ,best wishes to you ,hope u recover soon...!
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• United States
11 Jun 08
Yeah it definitely isn't easy at all. Thank you.