hanging out with people of the opposite gender

United States
June 9, 2008 9:09pm CST
So, long story, i'll try to condense it. So, my last relationship was horrible, she cheated on me, ect. So, when i met her, i also met one of her friends. So, after i broke up with her, her friend and i have remained friends. Now, we wanted to hang out as just friends, but her bf has all of her friends hating me 'cause i liked her at one time. I mean, we just want to hang out as friends. My new gf said she wouldn't have a problem with it 'cause she trusts me. I'm not talkin' like we want to hang out alone, but she knows that if she even see's me her friends/bf will flip. Her bf doesnt even want her to talk to me (online, w/e) any more, but she still does 'cause she felt like it'd be loosing a friend. So, what do we do? 'Cause she wanted to just hang out with none of her friends knowing, and just go with me and my friends, but i feel like it's kinda wrong for her to not tell her bf. But, she's tried talking to him and he just gets mad. Any suggestions?
1 response
nicholejade
@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
10 Jun 08
Her boyfriend is very insecure and does not trust his girlfriend. That is not a good relationship to be in. Yes you guys want to hang out as friends but she must tell her boyfriend that she is doing so. Why keep it from him? Is it that big of a deal that you guys are friends and you wanna hang out and do things that friends do. I don't understand the big deal on this. She should talk to him about it and tell him if you don't want me hanging out with my friends you are gone out of my life. He is not even worth the time if he is going to get mad about that. That is so petty and there are so much bigger things that someone should be worrying about.