Is love means only gifts?
By vishweshwarp
@vishweshwarp (91)
India
June 9, 2008 10:46pm CST
Now a days many lovers are in a feeling that love means exchanging gifts and others.The more you give gifts ,more is the love.
Is it true love?
10 responses
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
of course not..love cant be bought by money. giving gifts is just an expression of love and not the main reason of being in love.
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@positiveminded1977 (7072)
• India
10 Jun 08
Well, it also depends on the way you give a gift. If you give a gift with the air that you are the "great giver" and the person you are giving to will die if you don't give, your gift is useless. Nopes love doesn't mean always giving gifts. But it means a lot of sharing. And you share not just things. You share experiences, events, your life, lots of things, you share sweet moments. Not just gifts. Many people feel they only "give" their partners, but they do not realize "how badly" they give. "Giving" becomes such a torture for them that they forget that they are also getting a lot from their partners...
@Pirate_Arg (472)
• South Africa
13 Jun 08
No, that's a stupid way of thinking about things. Love is how you feel, not what gifts you give. Gifts can be given as a representation of love but the best gifts are not store bought. If you spend time making a gift, it means so much more.
But really, the gift that you should be giving to the one that you love is just being with them and supporting them whenever they need support. Material possessions are not an indication of love.
@dlm6171 (60)
• Trinidad And Tobago
10 Jun 08
I think people are are confused about love in a lot of aspects..There are a lot of things that can be shared by two people without costing a cent. Such as a day at the beach,moonlight walks , a foot massage, gazing at the stars. I mean sometimes you want to surprise the love of your life with a gift , such as long stemmed roses. But the truth is what about one morning you wake up and you lose everything , will your love also give up on you too? I hope not!
@ankush_uict (512)
• India
18 Jun 08
hey love is life's sweetest gift to you. You have to enjoy its warmth and live in its glow. One needs commitment and real attachment to feel love for one another. if you are at the receiving end of gifts from your partner regularly, start thinking why he is being so excessively passionate and clingy. it may mean some secret or something is being avoided. So beware and dont do it too often to take out the joy of giving and receiving the gift.
@rrdj71 (696)
• United States
10 Jun 08
OF course not!! I think that only applies to GOLD DIGGERS!! Love equals understanding, communication and being there to heal sickness and mend broken hearts and dry tears. I tell you the truth if I never got anything again I would still be HAPPY because I have the one true thing: God and His undying love for me and for all of the people, my health, my children and my husband. What more is needed? Food and shelter and hugs and kisses. THAT's IT
@ankush_uict (512)
• India
10 Jun 08
Its good that you feel like giving to your partner, but it should be upto a limit. it should not start become annonying. bcoz love is a relationship where people enter so as to share moments of peace , joy happiness together.