Will you say no when others request you too much?

I will choose according to my condition. If I have time and do not influence too much, I will try my best to help the one who requests me for help. I think that if you agree to someone, you should do the things best. If I'm busy with something I will say No and give him/her the reason. I think most reasonable people will understand. Unself-conscious people are not that many. Enjoy yourself!

If you can lose friends by saying "No", they're not real friends, are they? Why should their friendship depend on whether or not you can perform? Have you ever thought about the conditional quality of your relationship with these so-called friends of yours? Friends remain friends through thick and thin, it's supposed to be a give-and-take relationship. When it boils down to " we remain friends for as long as you keep doing this for me" obviously, some of them are just using you and you don't even suspect it. Then again maybe, they are not even aware that you are trying to keep them in the relationship by doing them favors, that is why you are now swamped with every request, whim and "can you do this for me?" Saying No is an exercise of your will to remain sane and effective at the same time. No one should have to put up with so many errands for other people. I assume you and your friends are all aduls so teach them independence by letting them live their own lives. Lose the "friends" who are only around for what you can do for them by saying no. You will know your real friends when they are mature enough to stay when you do say No.

Itz better tio say yes.. Or withdraw yourself by saying any good reason. no a plum reason..

Hi,yes it is hard to most of us to say no to our friends when they request,in me,but I say no when they request too much,that I can not bear.or afford to,you know,we can not do everthing for them,we just say what we should say,That it is.