is it ok for us to have the girl open for courtship.

Philippines
June 11, 2008 12:12am CST
traditionally girls dont have the courage to express their feelings to the guy whom the like. but now some had already express it deliberately. would it be nice if the courtship will also be done by the girls? what will be the impact of this to us?
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twix
@teison2 (5921)
• Norway
11 Jun 08
Here it has been done this way for several years already. I think this is the result of equal rights and oportunities, and will result in even more equal rights and oportunities. because there is still far to go.
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josephget
@josephget (27)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
thank you for your comment
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olivemai
@olivemai (4738)
• United States
11 Jun 08
In some countries, it is already acceptable for girls to start the courtship and let a guy know that she likes him! Don't worry, it may happen in your country any day now!
josephget
@josephget (27)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
i hope so. that would be benificial to girls out there who have their problem with this kind of matter.
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olivemai
@olivemai (4738)
• United States
11 Jun 08
The old way of doing things was usually through arranged marriages! that has been out for a long time, and I have even met couples who were married for a long time, and the woman was the one who proposed to the man! It has been acceptable here for at least forty years.
metschica25
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
11 Jun 08
Where i am from it is done all the time. i say go for it what do you have t lose . There are many shy men out there that would be overjoyed by this.Just start out small with some smiles and small talk
paisleylass
@paisleylass (440)
• United States
19 Jul 08
Here in the US it seems like he girls are the ones who do most of the calling now. I here moms al the time say how the young girls are calling their sons all the tme. We would have never doe that. The young ones seem to have no ploblem with it.