why we are getting married?
By harrish
@harrish (126)
India
June 11, 2008 12:19am CST
what do u feel about getting married?...is it a punishment?.. why we are getting married?.. to get more responsibility?... or just to get a support in life?.. what is the actual purpose of getting married?
4 responses
@moneymint18 (481)
• India
11 Jun 08
Getting married is nothing but a part of life. which almost everybody have to go through.
Some people get married because he/she is in love so want to marry.
Some person get amrried because their parent are forcing to get married.
some people are getting married because they thing that they need someone to take care of him.
last one is some people get married because they got a good job now the next task is to get married.
i am still unmarried even i have got a job and my family is even forcing me to get married. i also have decided to marry till i a find someone who will marry me!!
@heathcliff (1415)
• United States
11 Jun 08
I can only speak for my wife and myself. We wanted to get married to cement the bonds of eternal friendship and partnership in an official ceremony with all our loved ones. I think it helps a marriage significantly if both individuals see a marriage in the same way, but I don't believe my way is the only way to establish a great partnership. Many couples have successful, longlasting relationships without the formality of marriage. Others see marriage as a legal technicality, and I'm sure there are dozens of other opinions.
Whatever the case, marriage cannot be a "punishment" if you enter into it of your own free will. To me, it has been a reward for my commitment to my ideals and the love of my life. Anyone who envisions marriage as a punishment should seriously consider never marrying because the chances of happiness would be very low.
@fiona08 (454)
• United States
11 Jun 08
I was married for a long time before it fell apart. I thought maybe I would not want to do it again. I thought, if something that had been good for so long was not forever, what was the use? But I have fallen in love with someone new, and the only thing I want is to share my life with him. I want to marry him. I want him to be a part of every aspect of my life, and I want to be a part of his.