Bisexuals ,I need your help.

Im not bi.. I'm gay. But I thought I'd throw in my 2 cents anyways :p My partner and I never fight. People look at me like I'm crazy when I tell them that but its true. In 6 years I think we have had 2 "fights" and I wouldnt even call them fights... more like... I'm grumpy and sensitive LOL. If something upsets me enough, I will get it off my chest, he apologizes, then we move on. (LOL I have him trained well.) My partner does not get mad. I have never seen the guy get mad, ever. So that means one of two things... either one, I'm perfect and he could never get mad at me (I'm sure this is it) - or two, hes just one of those people who dosent get mad. I would have to agree with the ladies on the view with this one. When I see/hear about the straight couples I know fight - its pretty explosive. I think thats mostly because the differences in between a male and a female are ALOT more dramatic than the differences between two males. My relationship has the benifit of a partner who has the mind of a man... so we usually agree on most things. Thats not to say that my relationship is better than straight couples... we are just more likely to see eye to eye, and thus, fight less.

I've never really thought about it but I would guess that my arguements with men have been louder and more viscous then with other women. In fact I dont think I've ever really argued with any of the women I've been with but then, I've spent a lot more time with men too, so that might figure into it also. Yours truly, Tianna

Hhmm I'd have to say men...but I never really fought or argued with the women in my life ya know..AND having the background that I do I'm far more inclined to go into a hyperdefensive rage with a guy than with a woman..I've never seen women as a threat but growing up the way I did men were a constant threat and danger to me..Make sense? Off the top of my head though I would have to say that I SOMEWHAT agree that gay couples are slightly kinder during fights BUT I dont think thats the way it is with ALL g/l couples just like full blown battles arent always the case with hetero couples ya know..

Well now, i normally have fight with my husband, well thats the marital issues. But besides that, i never found myself fighting with any man in my past, whether it be brother or a old bf, or a freind...who ever..but i sledom fight with my mom, sis, female frendz and im more and always fighting with the same gender....