love two people at the same time?
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
United States
10 responses
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
Yeah but definitely one is greater than the other and they could not be equal at all. I don't believe that you could love one person equally as the others especially for romantic kind of relationship. Maybe a love for siblings I could say its possible, but still there's someone who does feel more loved and those that feel less loved that is why there is sibling rivalry since a mother cannot truly express equal attention to her children at the same time, but deep in her heart she loves them all.
@idowrite72 (2213)
• United States
12 Jun 08
I believe it's possible and I think it can be a hard decision between the 2 if things are good with both whom you are in love with. Much of it would have to do with how far along your relationship has gone, as well.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
12 Jun 08
it is actually something taht is sensitive. why only two, i have seen few who keep relation wity more than that. but the result is a big mess. he/she is going to hurt so many people. say you love two at a tme, you choose one and reject one. just think what the rejectred person will feel?
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
11 Jun 08
No i dont think its possible to love two ppl at the same time. I never did nor di di ever feel like to, and i dont c y any 1 should or possibly could. If ur in love with some, there is no chance to love some1 else too.... Lik eonce i had a boyfrend, who said i love you, but i love ur frend too, and i cant live without both of u!!!! That was just too sick and i know thats not love, just all the other things on mind...
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@pheonixstar1982 (2307)
• United States
11 Jun 08
I believe its possible. I would be dating one person and have strong feelings for another and felt bad about it. Like i was emotionally cheating.
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@bongkarpasang (1377)
• Indonesia
11 Jun 08
you meant ... for example like a father loves his wife and his child at the same time but have to choose between saving his wife or his child?
or did you mean, a female loves two guys at the same time or a male loves two girls at the same time, and then had to choose which one to marry? :P
I think it is possible for both 'love case'. :)
however, it might be rare. I know a friend who was loved by two guys at the same time, she also cared for both of them very much (although I don't know if she did love both of them the same way), however, she did choose to step back and leave both of them, because she didn't want to choose one of them and hurt another. :(
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@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
11 Jun 08
I dont think I could love more then one person at a time. It seems like it might get to confusing trying to remember who your with all of the time.
After all, I have a hard time trying to find one person to love at the moment! :D
Tianna
@Zergonipal (807)
• Poland
11 Jun 08
If you aren't careful it might happen. I don't think that it is anything special. Although I think that if you find this one and only person you won't have such dilemma.
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