If you had your heart broken and I mean really broken would you go back to the
By pretty_babe
@pretty_babe (704)
New Zealand
June 11, 2008 3:51am CST
I am just putting this discussion on cos I am very concerned with my friends life and what is now happening with his life, it really does suck big time I tell you. He likes texting me but it is just getting beyond a joke
He's got a big as debt problem cos of the ex-girlfriend he had. It's so bad that she has got him unable to eat or go shopping and do other important things to basically stay alive.
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If you had come out of a relationship and your ex-partner had really broken your heart. Would you get them back and start over again or just totally scrap the whole idea and say NO WAY, not again?
Thanks for your help.
5 responses
@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
22 Jun 08
I personally do not belive in 2nd chances as far as relationship goes... I will try to make it right the first time but if it doesn't, then no point going back to a relationship that didn't work out in the first place... Once a relationship is over, it's over... It doesn't matter who's doing the breaking or who has their heart broken... There are times I have my heart broken the first time but when she tried getting back with me, I wouldn't...
@pretty_babe (704)
• New Zealand
25 Jun 08
Hi sk66rc.
Thanks for your response. I will get back to you a bit later.
Catch ya later.
@pretty_babe (704)
• New Zealand
28 Jun 08
Hi again, this is getting back to you now.
Myself I don't really think that I could do the 2nd Chance thing with a relationship either so I see what you are somewhat saying but then since we all have our own views I guess we all have our own reasons if we do get back with the other person even when we might have finished it ourselves.
Thanks anyway for your response. might catch ya later on mylot sometime.
Catch ya later.
@pretty_babe (704)
• New Zealand
25 Jun 08
Hi Nagkho.
Thanks for your response. I will respond a bit later.
Catch ya later.
@pretty_babe (704)
• New Zealand
28 Jun 08
Hi again Nagkho.
What you have said is so very true and yet so hard to bypass the right person for you if they have gone and done something like this.
Thanks again for your response.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
11 Jun 08
It depends for me, when I feel that we can work together to solve the problems and see some hope, I will give a second chance,but, If I feel that having him back will just ruin more our lives, I would rather move on and try to fix my life without him.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
12 Jun 08
You're welcome pretty and I hope your friend will be able to decide what will be the best for him and i can say, he is lucky to have you as his real friend!
@pretty_babe (704)
• New Zealand
12 Jun 08
Hi there checapricorn,
thanks for your reply, I totally agree with this answer you have put as far as it would be for me. My friend is no interested in doing that but he can't get her to listen. I don't know how to get him to tell her to nicely stuff off and she can't contact him. Anyway, thanks again for your time and try help me to try help him.
Catch ya later.
@Zergonipal (807)
• Poland
11 Jun 08
I think that this should be a personal decission, couse some deserve a second chance and some simply not. Noone can say you the right answer to your question.
@pretty_babe (704)
• New Zealand
11 Jun 08
Thanks for your response.
I was actually simply just asking this Question to get the views of other mylotters. Thanks for the response.
Catch ya later.
PS. It was my friend I was asking so I do understand the point of view you may have taken.
@pretty_babe (704)
• New Zealand
11 Jun 08
Hi there SGTJOMAR.
Thanks for your response. I agree with this, thanks for your point of view.
thanks for your time and your response.
