What should I do?
By lpsanche
@lpsanche (208)
United States
November 2, 2006 8:19pm CST
This past weekend... I met someone great down in New Orleans for a visit that I made during the weekend. This guy is an awsome person, he is really a great guy and not just some random guy who I met on a Bar. But, he lives in Dallas, I live in New York... Any Ideas on what can I do?
8 responses
@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
3 Nov 06
I'd say go for the chat and e-mail option..if he is truely interested he will be more than willing to want to chat with you on IM....if he is reluctant or not all that interested...he could be married or not as into you as you were with him....But I wouldn't make any plans to meet him in person again unless he shows a genuine interest by talking on line, e-mail or phone..
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@melody1011 (1663)
• India
3 Nov 06
I guess if he a good friend of your cousin you could get his number for them. Its worth a try if you really wanna pursue this thing you have going with him right now. Since he is only 21 he might not be interested in a committment so you have to be ready for that as well. Better safe guard your heart in the beginning
@Betheltemple (54)
• Philippines
3 Nov 06
Well, if i were you. . . i'll think again. Relationships should be handled with extra care. its FRAGILE. Don't decide based on your emotions ONLY. Sorry to say but its deceiving. Meet him to know more about his life (if u want to last and biuld this relationship). We all deserve to love and to be loved. Use also your head and not only Heart. God bless.
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@kylesmiles (1910)
• United States
3 Nov 06
I guess I can relate to you! :) I am talking with a guy in Southern Cali and I am in Northern NV. We've just been emailing back and forth, etc.
Doyou guys talk on the phone?
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@lpsanche (208)
• United States
3 Nov 06
well we only met on Saturday. and I havent talk to him since. He doesn't have my number.. we were supposed to change numbers but we were so into each other that we completely forgot. I do have him on my IM.. but we haven't been on at the same time... hehe.. But i know I will see him again. Hopefully.
@brandy_i (76)
• United States
3 Nov 06
I would say use your head and your heart. If it is meant to be you will find a way to make it work. Get to know him as a friend and see where things go. I know what it is like to deal it a long distance relationship. I always thought that I would never do the long distance thing but I did and now I have been married for almost two years and I just gave birth to our beautiful baby boy in April. Now my husband is in Iraq and we are back to the long distance thing!! Best of luck to you.
@chiragpgandhi (1388)
• India
3 Nov 06
well if you like him then dont though about feautre.
you just go flow with him,
just put everything,dont think what happen,
if he is in your life then on one can stop him to meet you.
so just go and dont though.
enjoy the life.
enjoy the every day,every hour,every minute,and second.
jst go.
