why boys are sooo possesive ????????????????can any boys answer me..

India
June 11, 2008 7:11am CST
we both love each other...but now a days ,he is so possesive..why is it so..ya i know he loves me so much..and should be little possesive..but he is very possesive..i cant understand wat..i now feel that i dont have any freedom..plzz can any boys who have fallen in love can tell me...
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@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Love is a great feeling which has to be expressed. If you find it true, never fail to convey, thats a tribute to the love in real.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Jul 08
crysambscorp be really careful when you are with a guy who is over possessive as that is often the first sign of a man who abuses women, he does not want you to do anything unless he says you can, this is unhealthy for you and him. If you feel you have no freedom then something is wrong with his thinking, I would steer clear of a boy like this. possessiveness is not a part of love, its just'a part of infatuation and theres a big big difference.I think if I were you I would break this off before you get married and he starts to hit you for any numbers of reasons that are not valid. A person who loves you wont demand that you not have any other friends.break this off before it is too' late.he is on the way to being abusive.
@sirfsuraz (468)
• Nepal
29 Jun 08
yes i am a boy and i am also possessive. I know i am not going to loose her. Neither she'll leave me nor I will and I am sure about this. Although I trust her. I don't want her closeness to other guys. I don't want her smiling with other guys but me. I always wish her to be with me. Even she goes out with her friends, I worry if anything happen to her, if she get hurt on the way, if she may be hurt by her own friends.. I know its not gud and i can't avoid it. Yeah I am conservative minded.
@grammasnook (1871)
• United States
11 Jun 08
Be careful in this situation if you feel you have no freedom you may be getting into a very abusive relationship. I do not know how old are you, but thier are some warning signs and someone being overly possessive is one of them. Does he forbid you to go out with friends to be with family?
@eliren (91)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
maybe ur bf dont like somebody is clinging on u.. he wants u to be only his. possession.. im a girl, in my case, im the one who is possessive, coz i dont like to lose him and i dont like any other girls talk to him... i also dunno why, all i know is im possessive but not a jealous girl ^_^