How would u define RELATIVES?

see deepika do't be so professional,everything is not profit and loss,wht the sun is getting by giving us its power of light,similarly abt relatives their presence is enough,in need or not in need this is not at all to think.relationship is a big thing,making a gud necessary isa tough thing,we shud always try to manitain it.

haha... thats kinda true... i feel that my mom's side of our relatives are those how really cares for us for being us... like they will accept us for being ourself... but my dad's side they just want to feel superior to us... they just call to make arragements for either chinese new year or christmas... which is the only few times we see them... oh those torturest days!!! but in my mom's side we do interact... i talk to them in msn and have them as a friend in facebook... while i have NONE in my dad's side.... so...i guess it is kind of obvious that i have a better relationship with my mom's side... i think that when i grow up, i will cut off all ties with my dad's side of the family... hmmm... how fast can a person grow up????

I sure do agree with you. LOL!!!

no way. you are branding all of them as crooked and nefarious. this is not at all a genuine statement. suppose you go out and help some of your relatives. do you think for them this definition of relative is applicable. i think you got my point. relatives are a part of your family. an Indian family is an amalgamation of people who care, share and have respect for each other. it is a part of the rich heritage that we are carrying on our shoulders. this has a bearing even on our souls. relatives do come to your help. at least, god has been kind enough to bless me with some. hope you get some portion of his kindness as well.