what's the worst rumor/gossip you ever heard about you?.

it is really painful when gossip cames from your own blood especially if it the gossip is spread by your mother. This case refers to me. I was really deep hurten and can't believe my own mother would spread such gossip which is not true. Oh well eversince i was born we are not really close and she really makes me feel like i am unwanted child. Yours is kinda ok than mine. it really makes me cry everytime i feel the pain. I just dont know why she is like that to me.

The worst rumour I've ever heard was that I was a sl*t. No offense. I kind of got in a mix-up with a boyfriend then and his ex and his ex kept creating rumours. She was really good at it, so the rumour really did go around! I was so humiliated and upset at the same time. I don't really let myself get affected by petty things like that, but I couldn't help it. Everyone heard, even my parents and they were so surprised and disappointed that I'd be in a situation were that could happen to me.

When I was an 8th grader in school, my friend came up to me and asked me how I could do it and I asked her what she was talking about and she said that she heard I was pregnant and was going to get an abortion. I told her that was crazy, (I was still a virgin,) and I asked her who told her that and she told me our History teacher. He later became the High School Counselor! Don't think I ever told him anything I was having trouble with!

Someone told me that there's a friend of mine told her that i lost my virginity and always hook up with my current bf. wtf? I feel like smacking whoever told this guy about this so not true story. Haih;|

I guess the worst one was when a stupid person spread a rumor about me using "someone" to get close to a girl. This "someone" was the bestfriend of the girl i liked. But then again, I had no intention to use her or so, we were close friends. Really close ones, but not everyone knew about that. Although she believed me that I had no bad intentions, she somehow moved away from me to avoid any more harsh rumors. That wasn't cool since I almost lost the friendship. Screw those people who wanted to ruin everything. You see, we can't actually please everyone. In one way or so, there would always be people who get disappointed or displeased with the decisions we make. Decisions are hard to make and earning respect of others for these decisions is downright harder. In your case, it was the cause for having such rumors/gossips about you. It's sad that the one who actually spread them is someone you know and close to you. It's possible that she did that because she is unhappy with what you decided. But that doesn't make it right, spreading untrue information about someone would never be right. We all have our reasons and beliefs and we stand firmly for those things, yet we don't always get respected for that. It's such a shame. I think people like those shouldn't be given much attention, for as long as we know who we really are and stand up for ourselves, no one is accountable enough to ruin our worth as a person. I'm glad when you said "I DON'T CARE FOR I KNOW WHO I AM"... That is really true and I admire such courage. Stand up for who you are and don't mind what other people think of you. They'll get what they deserve in due time.

it was when i was in 2nd or 3rd yr high school that my own cousin is spreading a rumor that i was dating 12 yr old! Holy Sh*t!! i hated her for that. The rumor spread around the campus and as the days passed by i felt i was getting smaller. i didnt want other people to see me!. But i didnt let that bring me down. plus i had to go to school so i really had no choice. haha!... well, the patience payed off... i was off the hook after i was seen with the so called 12 yr old, who turn out, we were at the same age. i didnt really know why there is a gossip that she's only 12 yrs old. it was probably because she was still in elementary that time and i was in high school. that was because she had to stop going to school. well, everything turn out ok. i didnt have to punch anyone! haha!

WOW! Your aunt sounds like a real peice of work...Im sorry she has put you through that. I would have to say that rumor that has most effected me was the one when I was a senior in High School. I was dating my best friends older brother..Weird I know...we all practically grown up together. And I had dated him off and on since probably my freshman year. But my friend came up to one day at school and slapped me. I had broken up with her brother after a big fight the night before. She did not talk to me for days after the slap. But I eventually got her to talk to me and come to find out her brother told her that I was pregnant and wanted him or their family to have anything to do with the baby and that was why I broke up with him. The few days of her not talking to me she had told just about everyone and so everyone was not happy with me. I wasnt pregnant, and I would NEVER tell him or his family that. I love them all dearly. But it hurt that she would actually think I would do that to anyone. I would never take a baby from their father if he wanted something to do with it.

Mine was that I got pregnant and had an abortion...! My God. I am honestly against abortion and why should I do that to myself?! Haler?. Some people just can't get enough of you..because of their insecurities for sure...Can't they just mind their own business then?. sigh! :(

A few weeks ago I heard that I was working the streets in my hometown and that someone saw me "at work" on the hooker street that same night. Umm... I live 1,500 miles away from my hometown so that one sure confused me. Turns out my ex's, girlfriend's cousin who used to be a close friend of mine told my ex that in order for him to think I was doing something dirty and not want me anymore. Thing is, everyone forgot to consult me. I wasn't even aware of the apparent fact that A) I want my ex and B) I'm a hooker. I didn't get mad I laughed because I rarely even leave my apartment other than to run errands and yet all of a sudden I'm walking the streets on the other side of the country, lol. What upset me was that my ex believed it and spread the rumor throughout his family. Our families have been best friends for generations so that one spread like wildfire. I felt hurt that he would think something like that of me after 12 years of knowning one another and my being there for him throughout the years despite us not being together. His girlfriend is psycho and has told the world how I want to "steal her man". I think she's just paranoid because she's the one who did the stealing while we were making wedding plans years ago and she thinks it will come back around. He and I live nowhere near each other and haven't seen each other in 8 years. I've told him a million in one times that we're over so I don't know what her malfunction is but yeah, that was a pretty hurtful rumor in ways.

There is a saying that goes like this: "Those who mind do not matter,and those who matter do not mind!" It is tough to stand up in the face of gossip, but you will be a better person for it! I just do not understand why people believe what they hear! If you moved in with your dad, it was for a good reason! It is only too bad that so many youth have to choose with whom to live, as divorce is so prevalent in today's society!

the worst rumor I have ever heard about myself was that I was having a relationship with a certain lecturer in university. darn it. I was inside the same toilet room overheard it. and later the whole class found out that the person herself (who spread the gossip) was in fact the real girlfriend, we found out when they later broke up. shame on her!

My grandmother loves to gossip. She will gossip about anything. When I first started dating my fiance , she told people in my family (whom all I am not sure) that I was dating two people. At the time, I worked 22 hour shifts and was hardly able to see my fiance. When I let my gay best friend stay with me she basically said that he was not gay. My uncle one time called my mother and told her that she needed to get in contact with me as I may have a viral disease. The way he said it I am not sure, but I do know that indefinitely he mentioned it on the sole fact that an ex boyfriend had come around looking for me. I was upset, and confused so in some point I believed that I had a viral disease, i've never slept with this guy... I was saving it. Needless to say, my contact with family is very limited as a few members enjoy spreading rumors. I am sorry that this has happened to you and I hope that it does not effect you too much, sadly you may become hardened by it and in turn, isolate yourself from family. Best of luck to you, Have a Great day.

The worst would the rumor where i was told that i was the reason of the break up of a girl whom i date only once. I was told by a friend that the guy was devastated because he's was dumped after 5 years of solid relationship with the girl i dated. Though the girl made a mistake because she lied to me because when we dated, she's still with the guy.

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Just want to ask you, is your mom and dad separated? Anyways, my answer to your question is me having a baby or already have a family. That was so far the rumor i've heard about myself which is not very true. But i am just happen because truth prevails they have found out that i am really single.

I am sorry, that kind of thing does hurt. The worst thing that I ever heard about myself was gossip that ran through the church that my ex-husband and I were going to and it was that I left him (my ex-husband) for another man and that I cheated on him throughout our entire marriage and that I would sleep with anyone. I must say,that was all news to me!! Cuz I had no idea of all that about myself! HA, my ex-husband was such a jerk and he didn't know the truth from a fence post. So many people turned their backs on me at the church and that hurt so much cuz I had been going there for ten years, years before I had stupidly re-married my ex. But I have to say the same as you do, the truth will prevail and I know who I am and it isn't who that jerk says I am either!

That's the right attitude, charly. .Don't give her the satisfaction that whatever she's spreading has an effect on you. People who spreads ugly rumors will certainly reap what they sow. As you have said so yourself, your other relatives doesn't believe her. So, your aunt is just damaging her own reputation and credibility. As for my case, I was the target of an ugly rumor started by my nasty college classmates. Actually, it was me and my bestfriend who were their favorite targets. It was known to them that we have boyfriends and I don't know, maybe they were goaded by their jealousy. So they came up with a story and their "PREDICTION" was that before we reach our graduation, one of us, or most probably the two of us, will end up pregnant. They were actually so sure of it. My bestfriend and I were naturally hurt, but we didn't give them the satisfaction of letting them see that we were hurt. We just showed them that we were unaffected by their gossip. This happened when we were all freshmen. As it turned out, by our 2nd year, two of those rumor starters did end up pregnant. One of them wasn't able to graduate. As for me and my bestfriend, we graduated with a still flat tummy. Very not pregnant at all! So, you see, what goes around, comes around. Someday, whatever harmful words your aunt has been spreading around, will ultimately come back to hound her.

i think the worst about me was that it was a gay rumor simply becuase it was some high school mess, so everyone had rumors about them , some how i got involed , i didnt let it bother one bit so i kept it moving and minded my own buisness

Good day. I never heard any rumor against me because I ignore them. I don't let people specially those who meant nothing to me dictate my mood. I also don't want to waste my time listening to their gossip about me or about other people as well. I simply ignore them. People would say good or bad things about people specially when they have a motive to do so, what's more important is to listen to yourself and be honest about it. Other can tell truth or lies about you, you are the only one that can always tell the truth about yourself. Better listen to yourself than to other people.

Owwwwwww!!! that toooooo bad.... you should kick her *!ss wahahahah just joking. It feels bad when you hear rumors about you and even its not true. Just ignore it as long as you know what your doing then dont care a bit with the gossip. It will gone soon.