if you are given the freedom to cheat your partner,will you do it?
By jijomathew
@jijomathew (519)
India
12 responses
@muscare (3068)
• Australia
12 Jun 08
I'm not really sure what you mean in regards to given the freedom to cheat. Is that like having the chance to cheat, or having an open relationship? I think in good, strong relationships, there is no thought of cheating, whether the opportunity is there or not. Cheating isn't something to be tolerated, no matter what the state of the relationship.
@jijomathew (519)
• India
12 Jun 08
i was just saying that just imagine if you are given an oppertunity would you do it?
@jijomathew (519)
• India
12 Jun 08
ok ,nice answer.but i wanted to say girlfriend not partner.sorry
@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
hi jijo!
given the chance or not, i will not cheat on my partner. i am in a very loving and wonderful marriage and would not think of cheating on my husband. and even if it is not, i would not find greener pastures on the other side of the fence because i believe in a God who hates divorce. i know that by God's grace He has the power to deliver me from a bad marriage.
i am just so thankful that from the very start, He has blessed me with a wonderful husband who loves me very much!
i hope cheating doesn't cross your mind, either...there are too many broken families and unwanted children already in this world. i hope you don't become another statistic...
take care and God bless you dear! :)
@jijomathew (519)
• India
12 Jun 08
i was just asking a question i didnt mean that i am also like that.
@schulzie (4061)
• United States
12 Jun 08
I would not cheat on my husband. I don't believe in it. I feel that if you are not happy with the other person you should try to work it out and if you cannot and still are not happy and want to look elsewhere then you should tell your partner how you feel. It is better to be told that they are not in love with you any more than to go behind your back and cheat on you. It makes a fool out of the other person and they are not able to move on with their life while you are moving on with yours. It is only fair to be honest.
@jijomathew (519)
• India
12 Jun 08
thank you for your response,and i hope you will always be happy with your life as you are now.
@Zergonipal (807)
• Poland
12 Jun 08
I don't believe in cheating freedom relationship. I think it's just right to love one person and make love with the other. I don't think that I would be able to look in the eyes of my love if I would be in such relationship.
@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
12 Jun 08
i don't believe someone will give his/her partner the freedom to cheat. but even if i'm given it, i won't cheat my girlfriend. i don't make a time passing relationship.
@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
13 Jun 08
No, that's just dumb. Why be in a relationship if you want to cheat freely? I wouldn't invest in something that would turn out that way. No one should try and complicate things. I mean, during this whole freedom cheating aspect, what if you run into someone that you like more? There's always that posibility.
@ynigz1 (472)
• China
12 Jun 08
Something which will do good to my partner, I may cheat. I think many people do cheat to improve their relationship, that can't be say cheat, just don't tell something which partner don't asked. Actually good lies can improve the relationship. But sure those really cheat we can't do.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
12 Jun 08
even if there is freedom i dont cheat to the one i love most!because if i have special feelings it means there is one and only in my life.
@BloomerBeak (106)
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
I did this once when we weren't married yet. It was a great relationship, but somehow, in my very playful mind, I cheated (just for fling). I know it's not good but I still did it. When he found out, I almost lost him. I remember crying because of that stupidity, and promised myself not to do it again. I was actually hoping that he'd forgive me for what I've done. Luckily, he did, and now we're married. But if I didn't have the second chance he gave me, maybe I'm a lost soul now.
So my say is, it's not good to cheat, even if it's just for fun. It's still not right, and you may never find your true love ever again.