How can you tell your partner is able to change?

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There are many ways , and it's important to understand them.Asking if an individual can change means asking what an individual needs to change.One person might simply need to be asked.Other people need other things. For me you have to know some things that is important to your relationship.You have to make your partner fell that you are caring for him. Knowing you care. A lot of people need the sense that you really care about what you're asking for. you're probably surprised at this. How can she or he know you care if the two of you have done nothing but fight about this for years? I know it's a fact that people can spend decades yelling and crying and fighting over an issue and their partner will stay in all honesty, " I never really knew how much it mattered to you. So before you can say your partner can't change, you've got to make sure your partner know how much the issue matters to you, not based on your thinking he should know, but based on his/her proving he does know. Ask him/her on scale of 1-10 how important do you think this is to me? If he/she doesn't say 10, you know he doesn't know how important it really is to you.Do you agree with me? do you have more ideas? share it with us! thank you in advance!