Can you tell your friend?
@janiceancajas (227)
Philippines
June 12, 2008 3:21am CST
I have a close friend who has a boyfriend. Just last Sunday when I went to mall with my sister, I saw her boyfriend with another girl. I am sure that she is not a relative and am sure she is special to him, the way they look at each other and their laugh. When my friends boyfriend saw me. He got confused what to do and I hurriedly walk away from them and got my sister left behind. Now is my problem, my friend doesnt know about this. Last Tuesday, it happened that I was in my friends house when her boyfriend arrived. It seems that her boyfriend looks bother and his ask means, asking me not to tell her. I decided not to tell my friend, I will just leave it up to her boyfriend to tell her. My conscience really bothers me.
What should I do???do you experience this situation???What did you do???
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5 responses
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
12 Jun 08
You might try asking you friend if she was in a situation like that would she want to know the truth. See what she says and go from there. I would definitely let the boyfriend know that I do not appreciate being put in that position.
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@janiceancajas (227)
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
Exactly, I feel guilty everytime I'm with my friend. She always tell me how much she love him and the things the guy also did things for her. I wished the other girl doesnt exist to hurt someone like my friend.Help me pray that they will overcome this.
@Insung001 (740)
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
If you are really a friend to her, you should tell her. As a friend you would not want to see anybody cheating your friend right? That simple. Not telling her is the same as betraying her by conspiring with her bf's unfaithfulness.
@janiceancajas (227)
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
Thanks friend, am giving her bf enough time to explain his side of the issue. I'm looking also for the possibility that if I will tell her, there might prompt questions in her mind like why???when???how??? and etc... which I can't answer and its very tormenting to her part to wait until her bf will clarify those questions. Anyways, the guy already promise me to tell her before its too late. He broke up with the other girl coz he is inlove with my friend. I guess the problem will be over with two open minds and a heart that loves no boundaries.
@kittenmc (464)
• United States
12 Jun 08
I would tell! Why? Because I would want someone to tell me. Her boyfriend may not ever tell her and I don't it's fair for him to use your friend this way. I wouldn't worry about him, but would your friend. Let me ask you a question. Would you want someone to tell you? And if your friend does find out and finds out that you knew and didn't tell, it could hurt your friendship.
@janiceancajas (227)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
Thanks for the response kitten. My friend knows it just last night. They have a big fight and I don't know where is this going to led their relationship but I am here for her no matter what happened but will never interfer. I will let her decide by herself for the future not to regret.
@prashant_bele (10)
• India
13 Jun 08
Its good that not to bother someone's life. But if she is your good frnd. You ask 1 question to yourself, what you would do if it was your sister? Answer comes there. save people.
@janiceancajas (227)
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
oww!!! great prash hehehe...sorry not to comment your response right away. I was busy for the weekend. Anyways, its all been taking care of. Let's wait if the guy will have the guts to spell it out or if not. I will bring them together in a remote place and voice out the truth. In that way, we can't draw attention from other people.
@prashant_bele (10)
• India
18 Jun 08
Good, Carry on. One day you will be legend. If your attitude is to help arround. You are sure a legend., its not question only for loving frnd. its question bringing back the world of truth again to this lie world.
@janiceancajas (227)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
funny prashh... i'l be the partner of will smith in the LEGEND2 hehehehe.
@choyzee (32)
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
I will definitely tell my friend about it. I can't keep a secret like that.
@janiceancajas (227)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
Her boyfriend spell it out to her last night choyzee and just hoping that it would be over soon coz I know that they love each other. Is just that the other girl love to see a relationship shattered. But it doesnt justify what has done. Thanks for the response choyzee.
