Is this love that I am feeling..............................
By lovenluck
@lovenluck (1068)
India
June 12, 2008 6:58am CST
The day i saw her, I was just mesmerized by her. i just could not stop staring at her photo. It was around 11 pm ,was busy posting discussions here on mylot, I was signed in to my Gtalk account....out of no were I received A hi message, it was one of my orkut friends who was on my list but we never chatted or scrapped each other. Just returned back the hi formally, then went back to her orkut account and saw her profile photos were cupid struck me.
I saw her photos and i tell you i just was mesmerized, god she was beautiful and not just beautiful but simple and really awesome. We continued the hi and hello stuffs and thought that was just some kind of infatuation which will be over in a day or two. But it wasn't to be, i just downloaded all her photos and have been staring at it for days.
Finally i just decided to met her ,Luckily she too is from the same place from were i am and I had asked her were she stayed. I went up to the place and did manage to find her. i did meet her and just managed to talk to her and now i am just made about her. I like her but i want to know everything about her. Please friends how do I go about from here give some suggestion so that I can win heart ,i just like this lady and want to fall in love with her for ever
3 responses
@Pirate_Arg (472)
• South Africa
18 Jun 08
Good to hear. I'm going to tell you what I think you should do but I'm not really the most experienced person so feel free to interpret and develop on what I say.
Ask for a date. Note that I say for a date, not a relationship. I know you're crazy about this girl but if you try to go too fast you might ruin your chances. If the date goes well, then you can start considering taking it further. Saying something like "I really like you and would like to get to know you better," should be sufficient.
Just because you talk all the time on the Internet, doesn't mean you know each other, you still need to start from the beginning. I've fallen for that trap before and it didn't end well. In response to your topic, I would say that it is not really love you are feeling but rather infatuation. You would get to love her once you know her better... I think.
If you want to do something spectacular to win her over, think of the skills that you have and can accentuate. If you have the musical ability, consider writing her a song or even just performing something sweet for her. If you can write poetry, go for that. Anything that shows that you care enough to spend the time creating should work.
Best of luck to you. Be sure to post here afterwards so that we can know how it went.
@lovenluck (1068)
• India
18 Jun 08
thanks for the advice buddy will surely let you know if there is some further progress for now nothing is working,hope it will i sure like this lady.
@lovenluck (1068)
• India
18 Jun 08
thanks for the advice buddy will surely let you know if there is some further progress for now nothing is working,hope it will i sure like this lady.
@lovenluck (1068)
• India
18 Jun 08
thanks for the advice buddy will surely let you know if there is some further progress for now nothing is working,hope it will i sure like this lady.
@sherrilynn9 (15)
• United States
18 Jun 08
I agree with the others, you should ask her out on a date. You won't really know if you are in love with her until you spend some quality time with her. You never know it could blossom into something beautiful. I met my fiance online, we chatted online for a few months, then took it to the telephone for a few weeks then we finally decided to meet. He was more than I expected and we both totally fell for each other! A lot of people think I am crazy because I met him online, but I find it no different than meeting someone in a club or something. He has changed my life and he brings out the best in me! I could never ask for more! I wish you the best of luck! Just remember to always be yourself!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
Having to like or really attracted or would i call it attractions....For being close to her or winning her heart and knowing her more is being yourself and making her comfortable by being herself... Love moves in mysteriuos ways i guess!
