Are you a true lover???

yes i did. but no one could understand my joker heart

By true love, it sounds as if you mean soul mates. The types of questions you ask in your post can only be answered positively by someone who has found their true love. I have been very lucky to find my soul mate, and it took me 30 years to do it. I do not believe that you can have a true relationship without honesty in every facet of that relationship. We share everything, the good, the bad and the ugly. There are not skeletons hiding in the closet just waiting to pop out and ruin our relationship. In good times and in bad, we are there to support each other unfailingly. While we may not always have the answers, we discuss and pray and work together to find a solution. While I am not best friends with some of his family, I tend to make exceptions and remember to breathe deeply while I am with them. For the health of your relationship, it is important to make concessions at times. If there is a reason why your family doesn't care for the person you love, find out why. It may just be a minor stumbling block that can be overcome with a bit of patience and work. When we fight, we both seem to decide that it is time to make peace with each other. There really isn't a rule as to who apologizes first. We get our point across, step away from the situation and come back to talk about it when calmer thoughts are prevailing. True love knows no bounds, except the ones that you place on your relationship. Without honesty and trust, you really do not have love, but rather a relationship built on sticks that will eventually fall down.