why do women look for another men?
By weng0119
@weng0119 (3)
Philippines
June 13, 2008 12:06am CST
Even if your are married some women get attracted to
other men.Is it normal?
9 responses
@marieliz_68 (4)
• Philippines
21 Jun 08
maybe because she didnt love her
husband very much or jaz flirting the men.
@WATARIKENJI (1534)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
I think its not normal. Attraction should be exclusive to your husband.
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
13 Jun 08
Hello, weng0119. Welcome to myLot. I hope you make a lot of friends and enjoy yourself here. There are some truly wonderful people to meet.
I don't personally think it is normal for married women to be attracted to other men. I believe it is okay to find other men attractive without being attracted to them.
@ChristLikeFarmer (563)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
Attraction and being attractive are normal in this planet. It goes vice versa not only to women. Its like announcing that you have taste and know how to appreciate other people. That makes us human! Happy posting :D
@celticeagle (166976)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Jun 08
Men do this also. I think most people whether married or involved or whatever, get attracted to other people. It is the way they conduct themselves after that that is the problem. A woman with respect for the sactity of her marriage can see men on the street that are attractive and not do a thing about it. Others do. They have no morals, no self respect and no feelings for anyone but themselves. I do want to make a point here though. It is not just women that do this.
@Odamashin (434)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
hi!i think there's nothing wrong with it..as long as you're not flirting and your love to your partner is still there and never change..and you just keep it to yourself...Being attracted is different from being in love...Maybe you're just attracted to him the way he carries himself, his looks and maybe because you sees something in him which you never saw in your partner...but it doesn't mean that you are falling for him..
@celia4evr (209)
• United States
13 Jun 08
I would definitely say its normal to be attracted to other men. It just part of human nature. It has nothing to do with being unhappy with the one you are with. Even if you aren't even looking for another guy. Its hard to resist someone who is eye candy. Look but dont touch!
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
It is normal to have an attraction I assume but giving in to that kind of emotion and entering into another relationship other than your marriage cannot be considered normal but instead a grave sin in my own opinion. It is because women should be loyal to their husbands and as well as husbands to their wifes after their marriage... for they have made a solemn vow before God.