I want to be friendly..again..
By Odamashin
@Odamashin (434)
Philippines
June 13, 2008 1:24am CST
hi guyz..have you experienced some changes in your personality? I mean being friendly to an unfriendly image? Well I do experienced that because of my boyfriend who became my husband now..He was jealous to all of my close friends that sometimes he confronts me because of the attention I gave to them.To make him stop, I keep distance in making friends..so now I felt it's hard to be friendly again but i do really want to be what I am before.. But in fairness to him, he changed his attitude..he's now feeling guilty for he changed me..I do love him very much..
2 responses
@AdrianX (30)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
..Yeah,I'm sorry for that, my wife. You got it wrong before, I do want you to be who you are, but I didn't want you to be too close to your guy friends because that will make me look like a jerk for letting you be too close to them.Now that we're married, go ahead; make friends. As long as I know who your friends are, too.
@shijiaxin13 (66)
•
17 Jun 08
I think you are brave to say sorry out.Many people prevent their boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife from contacting the heterosexual friend just cuz you love her/him so much that you can't imagine to lose her/him.So you think if you stop her/him see their heterosexual friends ,he/she would belong to you forever.Have you ever think ,love your wife/husband/boy friend/girl friend,you should also love their friends.Maybe,one day,they will become your closest friends.
@honeydew82174 (1720)
• United States
13 Jun 08
He should not have done that to you in the first place. He needs to deal with his jealousy issues and let you be your own person and have your own friend. He should keep you away from every one. It makes a person bitter and unfrienly like you said.
