Friendship or Love???

oh men,..i experienced that kind of situation before..its really hard..my bestfriend likes the guy who courts me..at first i dont know what to do..but i think many times about it and i think i am going crazy...but i decided..i choose my bestfriend because i dont want to ruin our friendship and because i dont want to loose her even it is hard for me to choose because i also like the guy who courts me..but at the end i realize that my bestfriend is very important to me and i am treating her as a part of my family. I realize that friendship is very important and i know that i can find other guy for me but it can never replace the friendship that grows between the two of us. I know that both of us will find the right guy for us. We dont need to ruin a friendship for a limited happiness.

It is a hard question,you may consider who is your important person.Best wishes.

For me it depends on what you are trying to point out.But I do believe that friendship and love co exist.I love all my friends wether a boy or girl I love them all,when their is friendship there will be love,it may not that too deep but love between friends will always exist.

i never love my friend in that sense as lover to make a lover is to loose a friend friendship is what i die for bcoz friend in need is friend indeed but lover....

It is indeed not a easy to distinguish friendship and love whiles.People have always been dispute whether there is real friendship between mem and women.I think that depends on the will of the indviuals.It is great that the two sides are willing to maintain such a pure friendship.

for me friendship and love, this two words are very important to us, because it can gives you happiness and at the same time belongingness that eveyone wish to have. but if i where on your shoe, i would choose my bestfriend, because you said, he courts you, but he is not your boyfriend-so you have a choice to choose. in my own opinion, i cant afford to lose my bestfriend because my bestfriend is like a sister to me. years that we've been together is priceless, and no matter what happens i will stay for her. what matters most for me is that not all people will understand me and loved me the way my bestfriend do for me. you have to decide,because the way you wrote i noticed that you already fallen for him.....my advice for you is that try to weight things,be careful and listen to your heart.