does it matter if a woman take the first step for loving?

Philippines
June 13, 2008 9:16am CST
i'm interested to know if woman 2day is aggressive to express what they like and how man will react to it. would it be positive or negative?
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
I think it depends on his reactions... nothing wrong being honest with someone with what you feel, and knowing what responds he will give you, a smile, a blush, or being sad.... what scares is getting hurt by rejecting you with how you feel about him. The world is changing nothing wrong with it! Have a nice day!
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@ynigz1 (472)
• China
14 Jun 08
It's not a matter if woman take the first step. But before you act, you should see this man is worth you doing so. I don't what man will be react to this, two person can being together by love. If he like you will accept you, then woman will not loose the chance to being together with that man. Sometime man don't have courage to say love, so say by woman don't make much difference.
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• Canada
14 Jun 08
I don't think it's a matter of positive or negatie. There should be no problem with women making the "first move." I don't like it being called "agressive" either. Agression seems to illustrate confrontation, conflict.... I think that it's fine, no matter which gender takes the first step. I took the first step with my relationship, and we are now happily married. I also kept my last name.
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• Philippines
14 Jun 08
good day.. Personally I think its ok with this age and maturity as long as their not playing the man. Woman has the power to make them love by man once they do some man are under their spell. It would break a man that gradually falling in love with the woman and finds out that she's only playing him under his nose.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 08
I believe that the woman who makes the first step is the one who is confident and sure of her feelings towards the man, that it really wouldnt matter much if the man will take it negatively. If this is so, am sure that the woman would take the rejection bravely. I don't think it as being aggressive on her part, its more like knowing what she wants and how she'll reach out to make known her feelings.
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
You'd be surprised to know that most girls now do initiate intimacy. Guys find this action more like a sense of being liberated and modern and don't ususally frown on it. Based on my own experience, my partner even loves it when i do the first move.
@chiyosan (30181)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
i think it does matter for a man, there are men who likes women to make the first move, there are those who don't :)
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@WATARIKENJI (1534)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
It depends.