which one do you save you parents or your partner?

This will probably sound odd to most, and draw fire from many. However, my father asked me this question when I decided to marry. I answered honestly and told him I would save my partner first before saving my mother. He smiled and said he gave his blessing to our marriage. It was his thought that if I didn't love this man enough to put him before my parents, that our marriage would not be strong enough to survive life's struggles. I would hope that I would never be involved in this type of situation, and have to make the choice. Both are irreplaceable to me.

of course my mother would be my 1st priority coz she is my bestfriend and my everything. id rather lost my man than to live w/o my mom.... i lov yah mom