What makes you fall for someone?

New Zealand
June 13, 2008 10:42am CST
Is it his/her good looks? Is it his/her smile? Is it the way he/she talks? Is it his/her personality? etcetera etcetera... what's your story? what's your opinion? please share it here...
9 responses
@achiek_5 (41)
• Malaysia
19 Jun 08
hmm..let see..his good look, his smile, the way he talk, his personality, his attitude, his caring after me, his family, the way he look at me...makes me melt..hahaha...
• New Zealand
19 Jun 08
hmmm I assume what makes you fall for someone is how he basically sweeps you off your feet...
• New Zealand
19 Jun 08
I understand... but be careful of whom you fall for... you're blessed if the man you fall would sweep you off your feet not only during the time he is courting you but throughout your relationship... =)
• Malaysia
19 Jun 08
haha...that's absolutely correct.
• Canada
13 Jun 08
I fell for my fiance because he's hilarious and was always making me laugh. We have always have had so much fun together!
• New Zealand
14 Jun 08
a good sense of humor is essential in a relationship... well at least that's what I believe in... but the best comedian knows the perfect timing...
• United States
28 Jun 08
Yeah , that helps a great deal that helped me fall for mine too He truly is my bestfriend and the best of times are with him.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I think it takes a lot of different things to make me fall in love with someone. With my boyfriend it was his personality, his intelligence, his humor, and so much more. It can be hard to pin point an exact thing that made me fall for him.
• New Zealand
20 Jun 08
Actually I believe in the saying that when you fall you just fall... but of course there are some people who can say what they fell for... personality is a great factor isn't it? thanks for the response...
@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
6 Jul 08
For me its the maturity of a person that can really make me fall for him. How responsible he is with life, someone who knows how to be serious and at the same time to have fun. I have had previous relationships before and I always have the same problem. All of them love me but is taking for granted their own life. being mature or responsible follows everything like being loyal god fearing etc.
• New Zealand
6 Jul 08
hmmm I like the way you think... thanks for the response...
• Philippines
29 Jun 08
good day... her beautiful smile, her eyes, her friendliness would surely take my attention and would urge me to get to know her but her totality that includes her substance and personality would define if we can go further than acquaintances and if that fits perfectly then lastly her sense of humor, point of views and most importantly her imperfections would decide how long will stay in a relationship, Of course love must be present in all stages. thanks.
• New Zealand
29 Jun 08
nice... hehehe... personality does matter a lot...
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
28 Jun 08
I think it is a mix of everything for me when I am drawn to someone . It is something that will just happen , you know ? If they treat me well and respect me then we are all good . I have always liked the funny man with dark hair and eyes .
• New Zealand
29 Jun 08
I see... thanks for the response... =)
@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
13 Jun 08
i think it is the personality... because i feel that having a good personality is much better than having a good face or a sense of style... another thing that makes me fall for someone is his sense of humor.... who does not love a genueally funny guy???
• New Zealand
14 Jun 08
yeah... I agree with you...
@taqinaka (429)
• Malaysia
13 Jun 08
Hi drsparkle!What makes me fall for someone?Well before i met my current gf,i think i'll go for her looks but after i've met my current gf now,my perception change.LOL.I met my gf through myspace and yahoo messenger.So,i chatted with her to get to know her better and i realize that she's different from others.She makes me smile and laugh.She talks and share her stories with me like no other girl that i've been with before.She's a good and caring friend that time and now,she's my caring,good and loving GF.LOL.Well,that's all the story that i have to share.Hope u enjoyed it.LOL.Cheers.
• New Zealand
14 Jun 08
I'm not surprised that you fell for someone through the internet... that's quite normal nowadays... but I'm glad you found a true one... because let's face it some people are different when you're speaking with them through chat...
@jray002 (16)
• United States
13 Jun 08
I fell for my husband because of his caring and generous nature. We have the same goals in life and a lot of the same values. We support each other through whatever comes.
• New Zealand
14 Jun 08
to love truly one has to be selfless... that's another thing I believe in...