why is it that love is bitter and sweet

the heart - very complex
@sine2x (52)
Ghana
June 13, 2008 8:25pm CST
when you are in love, it is the best thing. when you are broken hearted love is the cruelest thing. pls tell me why
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
14 Jun 08
I guess that is life, good and bad, bitter and sweet, ying yang..you know when you take notice of how the human race is, it is when things go bad that makes us appreciate the good, I think we take the good in life for granted and it is when things go wrong that we crave for the good, so maybe if we had had love so easy and good we would just take it for granted anyway... we always become stronger and wiser through a heartbreak...
@sine2x (52)
• Ghana
14 Jun 08
but we quickly forget after a heartbreak when we fall in love again that love had been cruel to us before. it is very wiered and complex.no matter how bad we are hurt we think it is wonderful the next time were in love
14 Jun 08
hi!! have you faced a broken heart situation?? anyway to ur qustion,my answer is quite simple- suppose u r enjoying all the riches in life,and one fine day you get ruined...come on roads!! this is exactly the feeling u get after have a love relationship and then having it broken!! u feel u r belonging to nowhere! now this is natural,but out of my personal experience,I'd like to say one thing,never mke someone the reason of your life,because u cant afford to lose the reason to live.love,but never make yourself handicapped without that person!! I dont know if i could answer to ur question!
• Canada
14 Jun 08
When we fall in love we make ourselves vulnerable by opening up and TRUSTING the person we love. When something happens and this love ends, we feel hurt, because we opened up so much to that person. On the other hand, when love goes right, we feel greatly rewarded for opening up he way we did.
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
It because not all the things in this world are good. Remember that satan is also present so any good things that happens sometimes has an equal bad things. So its yourchoice if you will embrace both worlds or not. But remember no one knows if the person you're with will be the last person for you or he's the best for you so Id better take the chances since life is a game.
@222000 (3)
• China
14 Jun 08
Obviously,I do love him,but one thing sunddenly happen, people would not think too much ,thats instinctively react.Time can prove anything.love is impervious to reason,people in love all like this.