Living Room? Bedroom? Bathroom? Where do you relax?
By anawar
@anawar (2404)
United States
June 14, 2008 12:16am CST
Everyone has a favourite nook or cranny in their house to relax and be comforted.
Have you created a special place to hide in when you're dead tired, sad, or angry?
What's on the walls? Pictures of your family and friends, or artsy prints?
Do you soak in the bathtub surrounded by soft music and candles?
Take us on a visual tour of your favourite detox hide-away.
(Mine is boring. It's anywhere I can take my book.)
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25 responses
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
14 Jun 08
My bedroom is my next relaxation place after my runs.. lol =D I feel very relax while i'm running, and after which, i will just wanna take a cold shower and lie on my bed straight, because my bed is the most comfortable thing of all.. hehe.. However, i dun always get the chance to do that as i'm always out.. So whenever i got a chance to do that, i dun mind being on bed as early as possible.. LOL
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
19 Jun 08
oh, then it's time for u to change your mattress ^_^ We have to be comfortable while sleeping or else we wun feel fresh the next day we wake up ^_^
MY bedroom is actually quite colorful, with peach color walls, blue wardrobes,white wardrobes, black tv and console, wood color table and grey bed.. lol
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
14 Jun 08
My computer room is my refuge. I have my favorite guitar here, a small amp, shelves of books and cds and tapes and a couple of my dragons. The others are scattered throughout the house. There are a couple of plants in here, too, and I can look out into my back yard. I would like to put a comfortable reading chair here, too, but I don't think there's room! It's only about 10x12 and my desk takes up some of the space. I really need to rearrange it!
@anawar (2404)
• United States
18 Jun 08
I hope you got my message of aploogy for my absence. I feel horrible I missed all my discussions.
What do your dragons look like? What kind of plants do you have? I always like to have some kind of ivy and a prayer plant. I killed all my plants by mistake, one by one and I haven't started buying new ones yet. I keep knocking them over_
Your room sounds like it's packed full of comfort. And you play guitar? I used to be able to play "Puff the Magic Dragon" Sorry.
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@anawar (2404)
• United States
19 Jun 08
dragon_ Thank you for sending the picture. Now I have a visual of part of your impressive collection. The cloisonne from the Great Wall is a dragon to be treasured, even if it was from an ex relationship.
What a relief to leave all the ex problems behind you. I'm glad you're okay now.
I forgot about spider plants. I usually have those, but you have to keep trimming off the babies to maintain the healthy main plant. I end up with baby spiders in pots all over the place.
How unique and touching your actions are when you try to save the plants at Walmart. You are a very special person and important to our society. I imagine you know that, or I have told you before.
Travel lightly.
@getnbuy (1312)
• United States
14 Jun 08
Hi anawar! You start interesting discussions. My hideawya is my office. I made myself one out of my dining room. It is between the living room and the kitchen. It wouldn't be a comfort zone if it didn't have my computer in it. It also has a TV and book shelves. I have filing cabinets and cupboards, but I never get it all organized. I have pictures of my grandchildren on the walls, plus my award of merit for a song I wrote. I also have dishes and spoons displayed. If it sounds cluttered, it is. but, that's what makes it my space.
@anawar (2404)
• United States
18 Jun 08
It doesn't sound cluttered at all. It sounds exactly the way you describe it, the perfect hideaway. What's this about an award of merit? Tell me more!
Hopefully, my computer is safe from hackers and I can get back to this conversation before another five days pass.
@getnbuy (1312)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Well, a few years ago I was one of 15 winners in a church music contest. I wrote a children's song. It was quite neat because they sang my song in an assembly at Temple Square in Salt Lake City. they also honored us with a dinner. It was my 15 minutes of fame!
@Fishmomma (11377)
• United States
14 Jun 08
I sit in my favorite chair. Its the place to have some orange juice, take a nap, read a book, watch television or just day dream about anything. Its located in the living room and there is a picture of Dolly Parton with the title of her new singles. She is a great singer.
@Fishmomma (11377)
• United States
19 Jun 08
My husband has his airplanes next to Dolly, so our living room has both of our choices. I'm in the living room more. Many years ago was in a college band.
@anawar (2404)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Fishmomma_ for a minute there I thought you were telling me that your husband has his own private jets next to Dollywood! Then I realized you meant model airplanes!
Your combined favourite items nestled together symbolize the closeness of your relationship.
@ruby222 (4847)
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14 Jun 08
Mine is in my favourite chair in my little longe ,my lounge is what you would call cosy ..it has lots of cushions and throws over the chairs because of our little dog,there are pictures on the walls ..and the childrens pictures look at us along with their childrens pictures...we consider ourselves very lucky to have the comfort that we have and make the very most of it.
@Lock_Heed (210)
• United States
14 Jun 08
Mine's boring too. Anywhere I can have peace & quiet. Somewhere I can take in everything this far in calm meditation, not sitting there OMing (lol) just calm retrospect. From there I can go on and further create the rest of my day.....
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@anawar (2404)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Lock_Heed - Let me guess? You work for Lockheed Martin? The hacker I cleared out of my two computers worked for Lockheed. It took me five days to get back online. I apologise for the delayed response.
I'm reading "Whereever You Go, There You Are". It's an interesting read on meditation except sometimes its boring.
@dfollin (25351)
• United States
18 Jun 08
I need to relax,but I don't get to.The most I get to relax is when I go to sleep,if I don't have insomnia problems that night.
@whittby (3072)
• United States
15 Jun 08
I have the same type of getaway. Wherever the television isn't on and I can get away from everyone. Sometimes it's the bedroom, sometimes it's out on the patio. I love my books and the book itself is my getaway I guess.
I'd love my own little room to decorate and make mine, someday...
@golfproo (1839)
• Canada
14 Jun 08
Hi There,
It is true that we all have a place where we like to go and relax. It should be a place where we can go and be alone or invite other people to come along. Mine is downstairs in my basement. I have created a little "nook" in which I have my work area. I have a desk, computer, TV and a whole bunch of other things that I use on a regular basis. I would have to say that is where I feel the most relaxed.
cheers,
@anawar (2404)
• United States
18 Jun 08
golfproo_ basements can be so cool. (sorry, obvious play on words).
I like the idea of setting up down there. You won't get much traffic, and no one will trip over your stuff. It sounds very relaxing.
If you see this post, please accept my apology for a delayed response. Computer problems started right after I started these discussions. I was so mad and hurt and sad all at once.
@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
14 Jun 08
Hi anawar, When i want to relax and if someone is in the house, then my best place is bathroom, i can stay their for atleast one hour. Playing music and small small dance move. if noone is in the house then i play music and whole house. some time garden is the best place untill and unless someone dont come to disturb me. enjoy:)
@anawar (2404)
• United States
14 Jun 08
yogeshdhusa_ I knew it~! I knew I would find someone who likes the bathroom the best. You must move very carefully to be able to dance in your bathroom! I'm pleased if I don't slip.
Music takes you away from stress, so like me and my book, wherever you go with your music and dancing you find happiness.
Too bad you don't have 500 after your name. Then you could attach a picture of your garden. Come back 75 posts from now and leave a picture for me. That would make me smile.
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@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
14 Jun 08
Sure i will upload the photo of my garden and my "cash" my stupid dog who like to dig my garden. enjoy :)
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@xXxMikesWifeyxXx (3072)
• United States
19 Jun 08
We dont have alot of privacy in our home so were i relax is either here infront of my computer or on the couch.
On my walls,yes theres a few pictures. one of my daughter one of my nephew, a mirror, these haning flower type things. a light house glass dish set and a clock.
But no i dont have anywere were i can just go and relax with no one bothering me.
@anawar (2404)
• United States
19 Jun 08
xXxMikesWifexXx_ Maybe someday an opportunity will come into your life and you can make your own spot. I imagine the things you have on your wall bring comfort into your heart and mind. Travel lightly and thanks for stopping by. It was nice to meet you by reading your story.
@littleowl (7157)
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16 Jun 08
Hi anawar-my place is in my living room -don't know why there are no pictures on my walls apart from egyptian ones lots of candles my living room is lilac and purple and I have a chaair where I can curl up in and either have a nap or just relax it is also where my computer is so then zi csn use that when ready-your friend littleowl
@littleowl (7157)
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19 Jun 08
Hi anawar-yes I did get your message and have replied-I love scented candles different kinds but rose is my favourite I also burn a lot of incense too that can be from african musk rose jasmine opium frankincense all sorts maybe thats why I get suuch peaceful vibes from myliving room maybe I should think about doing my bedroom a lilac colour it is so relaxing-your friend littleowl
@littleowl (7157)
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19 Jun 08
Hi anawar I was wondering what side of anthropology was your daughter studying? I know a couple of people who have sutdied that and one went to Oxford University for it both people studied different things one of them studied theculurte and religion and the other is a social anthropologist though in both their fields they know a lot about human psychology etc it would be interesting to know what your daughter studied I find it fascinating-littleowl
@anawar (2404)
• United States
18 Jun 08
One of my daughters used an Egyptian theme for awhile in her bedroom. She was in college studying anthropology.
Lilac and purple are both realxing colours. As I was growing up, my bedroom was decorated using those colours. The room was very inviting.
What kind of candles do you burn?
Did you get my message?
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
15 Jun 08
As a child I would hide away in a bathroom at my granny's house. Most of the time I was sad when I was there because of family being mean to me. When I got older, the bathroom still became my refuge. I wouldn't take baths, I would just sit inside the bathroom on the skin and hide away from them.
To some extent the bathroom is still my sanctuary but I do not go into it as much as I now live with my fiance and his parents. The only time I will go in there is when I just need time to think.
@anawar (2404)
• United States
18 Jun 08
SomeCowgirl_ that's a very touching and moving story. You sounded like such a sad little girl. I know I was, but I went into closets.
The bathroom must have been the one place where you knew no one would bother you. And that room still works as your refuge today. It sounds like you're in a happier home living with your fiance and his parents.
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@anawar (2404)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I didn't even notice the misspell. It bothers me as well when I spot an error after I hit submit. Everyone does it.
It sounds like the friends you left behind weren't really friends at all?
My bathroom can't be set up for pampering just yet. I'll remember your thoughts when that opportunity comes into my life.
Thanks for your friendship. Travel lightly.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Lol, I just realized I misspelled sink... one letter difference, and it makes another word. Yes I was sad when I was younger because of cousins, and when I moved out and in with friend's it was much the same. I am happier here, and sadly the friends that I had priorly lived with have proven to not be good friend's at all.
The bathroom is a great refuge though, and I think that it's a must for any girl. Whether you pamper yourself or just take a breather, it's always the best place to be alone. Thanks for responding to me.
@oo0kulasa0oo (260)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
My place, though a poor woman's hut, can be a lazy person's haven.:-) Anytime I get tired of the four corners of my bedroom, I can easily go to the open sala and relax on the cushioned bamboo bench. If that doesn't feel appealing, then, I can simply sit on the grass by the pond which is only a few steps away from the bench. Otherwise, I can just lie down on my hammock under a mango tree. For me, nothing can beat relaxing while surrounded by nature. :-)
@DuoMaxwell (953)
• United States
15 Jun 08
When i'm stressed out (like I am, a LOT), I either go to my PlayStation 2 and play "Black" in order to relieve my stress by shooting and killing terrorists, or I go to my computer and drown out my anger and stress listening to songs from Susumu Hirasawa like "Forces", "Sign", etc., Maximum the Hormone's "What's Up, People?!", and any other kinds of high-tension music, just like starting another fire to snuff out another one.
Also, they're both in my room, but recently, my "paralyzed" laptop in there bas its power adaptor tip broken, and now I can't even use it at all. Now I only got my PlayStation 2, and the new computer in the living room, although my annoying, little pest of a sister hogs it up.
But still, i'll do most of my relaxation when I get myself a new apartment. That's when i'll be most calm when i'm away from those who stress me out; namely her, and any of my family members still around.
Alright! After this post, I can finally copy and paste!
@anawar (2404)
• United States
18 Jun 08
How's that copy/paste going? I lost my word program when I had my computer stripped down to the skeleton, trying to get rid of a hacker. Now, I'm trying to find a free word program.
I thought violent games would excite the fire of anger, but it's the opposite for you. I wonder why?
Enjoy your new apartment, away from your sister. Let us know when you move in, or start looking for one.
Sorry for the delayed response. Hacker problems knocked me out for five days!
@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
15 Jun 08
If I'm ready to relax I usually go to my bedroom or to my living room and take me a good book to read or take a nap, or both. In my bedroom we don't have a lot of pictures on the walls but we do have some sitting around. Now in my living room I have several family pictures and pictures of our two kids when they were little. I don't do a lot of relaxing because I'm either typing my medical reports, here on MyLot or on some other of my favorite websites, but when I do have time to relax I love to read a good book. ;)
@shymurl (2765)
• United States
15 Jun 08
I don't get much time to myself being a stay at home mom of three, but when I can get some time its a long relaxing bath. Sometimes I have candles. but most of the time I'm in the bathtub getting lost in a book. I don't get much time to read either so that is also where I go to read. I promise its not boring to get lost in a good book.
@anawar (2404)
• United States
18 Jun 08
I raised three kids as well! They always seemed to know the exact moment I was reading the final paragraphs of the book's ending. Oh, how I hated to get interrupted. I love getting lost in books and I don't ever care if I find my way out if its a really good sci-fi.
If you see this delayed response, please forgive me. computer problems started the night I posted these discussions.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Jun 08
My bedroom is my haven. on my walls I have many lovely'
prints of flowers and dogs and cats, and waterfalls.
on my dresser is a picture of my children when they were
babies, and my menagerie of beanie babies, all kinds some
forty or fifty of my critters.from out my bedroom
window I see a tall line of cypress trees lush ahd green
and smelling of a piney fragrance. I can see crows flying
about and see the sunshine and blue sky with big
puffy white clouds.I also have my hideaway huge wooden basket
full of my favorite books and magazines too. here is where
I read at bedtime to relax and get sleepy.
@Remembering1996 (2219)
• United States
15 Jun 08
I choose to relax in the liveing room for that's where everything I need is my tv, computer, radio, and all my wolf stuff which is from wall to wall. I am in this room more of the time than any other room in my place for this is the most comfortable place for me to be.
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
I prefer to relax in my bedroom because nobody will interrupt me. I will just have to stay almost whole day in my bedroom, writing and typing articles in my laptop, then sleep, hehe. Aside from bedroom, I love staying in the foyer of the house in the afternoon to exhale the soft breeze of the afternoon air. In the morning too when the weather is fine and nice, I love staying in the balcony of the house.