If your partner die in front of you, what would you do?:|
By ieeko89
@ieeko89 (1054)
Malaysia
June 14, 2008 7:39am CST
I don't know why i post this kind of discussion.
Maybe i just wanna know what would happen to some people if they face this kind of experience.
As far for me, I don't even know what would happen to me if my bf die, IN FRONT OF ME. I don't know. Even next to me, I'll for sure gonna cry for a quite long. Maybe takes a few years for me to move on.
Herm, yeah, it will takes a few years for me to move on and dating with someone else. Deep inside, I'll always remember him and I'll keep praying so that i could have the guts to stand by my own self. But i wont suicide. Hurting myself, that's maybe:)
- Tell the person you love, that you really love them before it's too late:)
Well, I love you b!
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23 responses
@taqinaka (429)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
Hi baby.Well,if you die in front of me?Wow.Tough question.I will definetely cry like a madman.I will definetely hug u like crazy and keep shouting don't go.Please don't go.I bet that time,if people want me to let you go,they will need more than 20 guys!LOL.Well,you are my lover,now im telling you what is my reaction if you die in front of me.I try not to think of it because if it happens,it would be really hard for me baby.So,from my heart...I LOVE YOU .
@money_maker01 (1097)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
Hi eeko, i see taqinaka is your boyfriend. well, I always you guys be happy and good couple for ever after.
@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
14 Jun 08
First thing is first CPR, I would do what ever it would take to bring that person back it doesn't matter who.. That's me.. I have experience people die before my eyes.. When I was 12 years old my grandmother passed away from a long batter of cancer.. It isn't easy to see things like that it's very hard and all you want to do is hold the person and wish they back to life.. I know I've done this.. My grandmother taught me so much that I will never forget it NEVER!! Seeing a person die right before you makes you think twice about life that I do know.. When my father passed away he had a massive heart attack two years ago 2 days ago to be exact.. When I heard he has a massive heart attack I dropped and couldn't get myself back up.. It's very very hard to go through things like this being as close are you are to a person and never ever expecting it to happen to a love one.. Your very right on telling someone you love them and yes before it's to late.. You should also tell them every day no matter if you don't want too or not it isn't ever enough to express the words to the ones your really love.. I know I wish I would of told my dad I loved him more than just a few times I did..Now I can't even tell him because he's no longer here but I do talk to him in prayers and I know he can hear me even though he's not here, He does know..
I am also sorry about getting off the subject cause my partner hasn't passed so I don't know what it would be like but I do know I'd cry and be hurt with anger that he was taken away from me and more than likely cry until I couldn't cry and more..
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@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
16 Jun 08
Those were just my experiences growing up awful ones but yeah ours are about the same and thank you for you replying back to what I did post...
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
I'm sorry for your lost. My eyes are watery while reading your post. I know exactly how you feel. My grandmother passed away when i was the same age as you. She got diabetes. And i saw she's dying in front of my eyes. And the next thing i know, she's gone. I never have the chance to tell her that I'm sorry for everything that I've done to her and from the bottom of my heart, i do love her. While my father's side, my grandfather, he passed away when i was 6years old. I didn't know much that time so I'm too not sad, but after months, i feel like missing something in my life. Cause I'm close to him and yet, he's gone;')
It's okay, I'm here to hear your problem:) Thanks for your post anyway.
@wangchunlin (155)
• China
15 Jun 08
i never think up of this kind of experience. in that case, i think i will prefer to bury him and then do something for him.
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@spongebobs_wife91 (25)
• United States
15 Jun 08
Sounds weird but my first reaction would be to grab him and not let go. And cry a lot.
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@lisa7033 (9)
• United States
15 Jun 08
idk what i would do but if that happened to me i would loose it my hubby is my life and i don't ever want to live without him but if he was taken form me i would hut down the person responcable for killing him and make him pay ...
as for dating again that would never happen i would devote my life to my kids and that would be it because like i told my hubby in the beginning god sent him to me in a time in my life when i had no one or nothing and he saved my life and to take that from me well then i'm just mot ment to be happy .
i hpe this answered ur ?
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Jun 08
i dont know what to react!!!i love my husband so much!! i really dont want to comment on this..i cross the bridge when i get there
@virces (13)
• Indonesia
14 Jun 08
Get started anything i can do, because with like that we can forgot anything not exceptly that our friend. It's means i'm not crying or do wrong way to forgot it. I hope believe if a "GOD" with us.
@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
16 Jun 08
I'd prefer to be there when my partner passed on. That way, I'd know the last thing he heard and saw was me. Obviously, I'd be a mess for a while, but giving him a more relaxed send off to the eternal rest would be a priority for me. Can't have him coming back to haunt me and annoying me because I turned away from him.
@jalucia (1431)
• United States
16 Jun 08
I don't even know. I know that for a good few moments I would try to convince myself that it wasn't true, and that things would be alright ... like they always are. I hope to never have to go through this. I, actually, hope to never lose any more people that I love - including my man. But, it's inevitable. My cousins discovered my Grandmother when she passed away. Sometimes I wonder how people deal with losing someone so close to them. but, somehow they go on. and, I suppose I will too. Or, I'll become one of those people that was never the same after losing someone important.
@pixelpixie (473)
• Canada
14 Jun 08
Probably scream and go completely insane. Denial and all that.
I'd probably end up going off the deep end and killing myself.
Unless we had children. I wouldn't leave them like that.
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
:|
You know you can do nothing if God takes her away from you.
I know it would be horrible and hard you to accept it. But if God has takes her away from you, don't be angry to HIM. He has planned it all. And yet, you could tell yourself that He takes her away because HE loves her.
@knucklehead123 (28)
• United States
16 Jun 08
To tell you the truth, I wouldn't know what I'd do until something like that would happen. I know it would take a long time to get over. And as for getting remarried, been there once and working on my second. I think that's enough.
@chej18 (915)
• United States
16 Jun 08
Hi Ieeko89,
I think i am going to cry very loud,And holding him in my arms asking not to leave me.I cant even imagine its hurting to much to think that he is dying infront of me.I think i would be in trauma for more years.
I will ask for help,i will call 911,fire department,doctor,nurse i will call everybody else to keep him alive.
@adindaanne (88)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
its gonna be hard for me to believe that he's gone.i'll keep crying while i hug him tightly.as for that moment im sure all those sweet memories gonna linger in my mind and that's gonna make me cry like hell even more.i seriously don't know what im gonna do,to think about it actually hurts me.i might be so sad,and have to be alone for quite some time.well,its not easy to going through my daily life without the one that im used to be with.but life must go on,just hoping that i could have the guts and strength to :)
@TessWhite (3146)
• United States
14 Jun 08
Can we pretend its my exhusband and I'm still the beneficiary on his life insurance???
Sorry - LOL - Couldn't resist.
@balanauto (15)
•
15 Jun 08
I dont know why you post this question...any the question is purely relative and cant generallise....If I would be the man,I will felt very sad about her sometime my heart get collapsed.......
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
Is it wrong to post this kind of discussion? I don't know why some of people doesn't like my discussion but yet give me some responded just to ask me why in the world i post this discussion. Mylot is free to post anything right? Why can't we post about something that does happened to some certain people? We should think about this sometimes. It may happen to us too. But yeah, thanks for your responded.
@smartdaniel (4)
•
15 Jun 08
it is hard to say because i don't want him die.maybe i will send him to hospital immediately doctors can do what i can not to save him.but i really do not no how to do.