when you dont love someone who loves you

@sine2x (52)
Ghana
June 14, 2008 8:00am CST
I am currently in a fix. A man is so much in love with me but the truth is i like her as a friend but dont love him. It breaks my heart so much because i hate to see him hurt but i dont want to marry someone i dont love. Do you think it is alright to marry someone who loves you more than you love them.
2 responses
• Indonesia
14 Jun 08
well, everyone has different situations. it depends on that. of course it will be great if you marry someone who love you and whom you love either. but we're not always blessed to get the ideal situation. anyway, i think it's better if you marry someone who love you though you don't love him, than marry someone whom you love (but he don't love you).
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
Yeah, I agree with that, but why marry at all if you don't really have strong feelings for the person? There's always an option to stay single. So why rush? :)
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
Hmm... You're in a relationship with him now? Why did you agree to be in that relationship when you don't love the person? Why are you asking about marriage? Is he proposing? What makes you NOT love him? Sorry for these questions, it's just that there's too much question for me. But if this happened for me, I'd be honest with him. But I should be sure about what I'm to say to him. Because maybe deep in my heart, I love him, I just don't want to admit it. But if I really don't, then I would be honest. Because in the long run, he'd see that I'm not in love. He may love you now, but it takes two to tango, what happens if his love fades and you're married and you don't love him as much? It's a much much difficult predicament to be in.