I have a Question that is Driving me CraZy!
By momalisa65
@momalisa65 (1971)
United States
June 14, 2008 4:00pm CST
I keep noticing something. I don't know why it bothers me that I don't know the answer, it just does.
There is a member here on Mylot, who became one of my very first friends when I joined. I have since deleted him because he is never here posting.
HOWEVER...even though he is never here, and he only ever had 4 comments total, he somehow becomes friends with every new person who joins...daily... and he has over 12,000 friends!
If his profile says that he logged in last week, how did he add somebody who just joined today?
And why does it drive me nuts everytime I see him becoming friends with someone new?? Lol!
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23 responses
@momwatittude (542)
• United States
14 Jun 08
I wouldnt let it bother you he is just a lazy person. As far as the friends go he probably downloaded that illegal automated friend graber that I heard was floating around. If you get caught using it I heard you get booted from mylot and it is not worth it.
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@momalisa65 (1971)
• United States
15 Jun 08
I never heard of that thing before, but that sounds like what it might be.
I hate to be talking about someone negatively. I hope he doesn't come back and read all of this. I was just trying to figure out an answer as to how and why it was happening because I notice it everyday and it makes me wonder.
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@ferdzNK (3211)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
That probably just it. He even beet me with my referrals which I should be the first because mylot automatically add me as their friend. The only way to know a user is new is if he/she made a respond or start a discussion, BUT she add interest to his/her profile.
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
14 Jun 08
12,000 friends? wow!That is cool! I wonder how much he earn from all those referral especially if everyone in the list were active!LOL!Maybe you have shared deeper friendship and made you miss him? Just a guess...LOL!
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@momalisa65 (1971)
• United States
15 Jun 08
You had this discussion with your husband? Lol. I'm glad I'm not the only one wondering about it.
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@NonaSaile (924)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
Yeah! I signed up 3 days ago, and was surprised I immediately had 1 friend request - and the indication was that the request was made one
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@onlinemoneymatters (117)
•
15 Jun 08
Yes, I too feel its rye.. coz the moment I signed up for Mylot, I received his friends request immediately. It could be only automated, what else.
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@taface412 (3175)
• United States
15 Jun 08
yeah i think he is the one who invited me to be his friend when I first joined...and he still only has four points.
Good call momalisa
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@intermy (153)
• China
15 Jun 08
Hi there mommailsa65!
That is very that your friend have 12000 friends.
Maybe he do not work here himself, but earn from his referral I think.
I am here just find something interest me. I do not think make a lot of referrals is a interesting thing.
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@funfreak2k2 (1734)
• India
15 Jun 08
referrals can got with a little hardwork. but you never guarantee that they will be active on mylot and you will earn from them.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
15 Jun 08
Yeah i guess when that person doesnt participate in discussions, but keeps on adding frendz, to avail nothing, i guess that upsets you. It would me too. I really delete such ppl who dont respond or dont participate, i mean if they r my frendz, even if they dont like my discussions, at least they should participate ib others discussions, or when i reply to their, they should take notice...
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@beautyqueen26 (16030)
• United States
15 Jun 08
I guess I wouldn't know whether to be offended or
impressed!
That's some kind of record for a guy who never logins or posts
discussions. Wonder why he needs so many friends?
I have a really large amount of friends but
then I'm always here.
So that's my excuse!
Be well.
Have a nice weekend!1 person likes this
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
15 Jun 08
I know who you are talking about, i had received an invite at start myself and accepted since i didn't had any friends back then of course - but after figuring out MyLot i have deleted that person myself. I see her in almost any mylot'er profile and i ask myself how is that possible and why she is doing that.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
15 Jun 08
hmmm its interesting topic. i dont know maybe you have some hiding feelings thats drives you nut thats what we call jelousy.sorry if i am wrong ok?have a nice day.
@jacksonesu (7)
• United States
15 Jun 08
You should email MyLot about that, I know that some people have scripts they can run on these sites to generate alot of revenue by doing nothing. While we sit her participating in the descussions and refering friends. That makes me mad when people do that, I would definetly contact MyLot about that user so they can look into it.
@MrsFairWells (921)
• Turkey
17 Jun 08
That's crazy! Why does he bother to add friends to his account if he never uses it anyway. There's something up with that guy if you ask me...
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
18 Jun 08
It is crazy and a mystery here on my lot just like many other people are .
Seems he may be up to no good.
something just doesnt smell rite.
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@momalisa65 (1971)
• United States
15 Jun 08
You have to send invites to people you know....your relatives, people you go to school with, or work with etc.
Your referral url is on your page under your avatar somewhere. When people join mylot using your link, you will make earnings from them posting here too!
@carrotcake14 (361)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
he keeps himself busy just by adding friends and not even posting a single comment? maybe he should join something like friendster, myspace or multiply.
@blackmantra_x (2732)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
good day. Maybe he's good looking? a charmer and has a good sense of humor?
@fortknox75 (842)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
hi momalisa, I just wonder also why does it bother you? Do you know him personally? Then you should ask him why. If not, maybe you should send him a message and ask him why. Maybe, he just want to have friends, but I'm puzzled what's he doing here in mylot if he doesn't join any discussion at all and what is his purpose of inviting friends. hehehe...that's weird.
@ramyashreesk (1021)
• India
15 Jun 08
Hey What's this how could it be possible ? Why is he making friends when is not posting? I wonder!
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Jun 08
I have noticed this also. I have noticed on other sites that they have this same thing. I believe it is like an automated welcoming device. Sort of a starting point for us. Not sure. Just an idea. Like I said, I have seen these on other sites.
@kaustubh123_sawant (166)
• India
15 Jun 08
This is really weird......i suggest u not 2 bother about it..........just ignore it and dont make urself go crazy......tc
