When your wife dresses for an outing.....

I am the wife and I do ask my husband's opinion and it is an honest answer cos my husband is one person who will tell you straight to the face. He's not the smooth lip type who will tell you what you want to hear. He will tell you what you are suppose to and must hear.!!!! LOL

hello muscare, i have to smile when i read the whole discussion as i can imagine you mumbling and wondering if your words is right or not - poor wife LOL. to answer your question, i do picked my hubby's clothes 98% of the time. he gets up in the morning and take a shower and all is ready for him even his toothbrush LOL i enjoy dressing him up but most of the time i picked his clothes based on what he likes and just adding what i want to see in that very day haha. i do wear clothes mostly based on my choice but sometimes he will tell me to change it as i look younger than my real age specially if we will go meet some friends in a nice place. i dont think he dont like what he sees at all coz most of my clothes is picked by him coz he shopped for me and give that as his surprised gifts (for no reason at all haha) he knows my sizes and what i like in a clothes so i dont get worried about it BUT sometimes he picks some design that i feel is too old for me and so i tell him that i dont like it. it is easy for us to tell what we like and what we dont like as we feel it is much better in our relationship to be honest. i tell him what i think and he do the same, and so far that is working hehe btw, i like to ask him anyway if he likes what i am wearing or if i look good coz i like to see his reaction or to get a reaction (i guess you know what i mean LOL) have fun. takecare

I will tell my partner honestly about what I think about that outfit that he wears because I alway wanted him to tell me the truth instead of "quite good", "looks good" etc..

I think most guys are the same, mine always said what he thought I wanted to hear but one day I put on an old dress I really disliked and wow I asked him how it looked and he said, thats the uglyiest dress I have ever seen. I had to laugh as that was the correct answer lol loland lol

I don't generally ask my boyfriend, mainly because I don't want to know. That sounds awful, but true. I work in fashion, so I know how to match outfits and colors accordingly. Generally if I'm leery of something, I won't wear it. My boyfriend is honest to a fault. Asking "Do I look fat in this?" is not something that will ever come out of my mouth. He will tell you though, good or bad.

Oh, I care about it a little. I nver mind my wife is wearing any colourful dresses.I always talk baout and care about the food. How can we cook for our health. As the clothes she wear on I care little, I seldem bought her clothes,She bought the dresses for herself by herself. But the clothes she bought are more fashion. I like all the dresses she bought.

I'm a woman who never asks this question, because I dress for myself, in a way that makes me feel comfortable and which is of no consequence to anybody else. They either accept me as I am, or forget it! However, I think that if I were a man whose wife or partner kept asking how she looked in a certain attire, I would probably tell her she looks beautiful in anything. That would shock her into silence, I feel! She'd probably never ask again, unless she felt very insecure about your response and I doubt that would happen. Brightest Blessings.

I absolutely love fashion, so i dont have a problem in choosing over my clothes or my sonz clothes, and my husband is not bad himself. So we dont face that problem, but if i dont like his attire regarding something, i just say it out and yeah, he quickly changes it.

Let's see...hmmmm..Okay, when I used to ask, "How do I look?" The answer was, "You look fine." I would say, "Fine, just fine?" What do you mean by "fine?" Of course he would say, "Fine, then you look Good, how's that?" I was hoping for Fabulous, or Gorgeous.....But "fine" and "good" was all I got...LOL Well, at least I went up a letter in the alphabet, from "f" to "g", so I shouldn't be complaining, right? I have a habit of asking the, "How do I look question way to much." Now he doesn't even look and just answers.....LOL

I think as you say its maybe better to be kind and just say that she looks lovely rather than to offend her and say otherwise lol..its a very difficult situation really..its a no win situation too....but just tell her she looks wonderful and you wont go too far wrong!!!