Grudges or Forgivness.

United States
June 15, 2008 9:39am CST
If you bf/gf gets mad for no reason and begins to gossip (my gf) ----(sorry this is the correct term my EX gf) and spread al sorts of untrue rumors and then comes to you and ask all nice and happy finds out your mad finds out that the message go to you and then tries to get you to go to dinner with them shopping you know wanting to make up and asking for forgiveness and when you dont accpet it theu expect you to apologize yeah right!! I left her faster than that fish custurd I ate last week left me at the table (blahhhhhh nasty dont try it) (and i dont even like fish why did I eat it) Should I just keep a grudge on her or forgive her but no way we will ever go out again I regret all the gifts i gave her too even bought her the sperry's she wanted and she gives me a bible in return what!!!!!!!!!!!!
1 response
@gtdonna (1738)
20 Jun 08
Well she didnt do right by you, and I can understand why you lfet her because her actions don't really sounds like someone who loved you and would do right by you. However, I woudl say, forgive her and move on...makes no sense to hold a grudge, the only person who is going to be unhappy is you.