friends
By Kaciann
@Kaciann (1)
Jamaica
June 15, 2008 12:42pm CST
i have a friend that gets jealous everytime i talk to another friend.she is my bf but sometimes i hate her so i hang out with the other friend.am i being too harsh on her by knowing that she will get jealous if i hang out with the other friend?
5 responses
@andyel2023 (218)
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
why do you hate her?? you said she's your BF..
anyway try to talk to her and fix things out...ask her why she's so jealous if you talk to your other friends..and try to explain to her also your own feelings about her..talk about it ...don't just keep it with yourself...you might end up losing her..
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
16 Jun 08
Hi, Kaciann. Welcome to myLot.
Your friend getting jealous of other friends is a self esteem problem of their's and not anything you should worry too much about. But maybe it would be best for everyone if you tried to include this friend when you are hanging out with the other friend. Just some thoughts......... of course, I don't know all of the circumstances.
I hope you make lots of new friends here at myLot. There are some great people around here. Have fun.
@Remembering1996 (2219)
• United States
16 Jun 08
In all honesty you are intitled to your friends and wich ones you want to hang out with.
I think for your friend to get jelious over you hanging out w/ another friend is being a little to much and she needs to back down a little and realize that you have other people in your life to spend time with besides just her. Try explaining to her this and have her hang out w/ you and your other friend if it might help matters some. I wish you the best of luck with this situation and may it turn out for the better in your case take care.
@rantingqueen (495)
• United States
16 Jun 08
Any healthy relationship includes some jealousy. However, it sounds as if yours may not be such a healthy relationship. Hanging out with another friend because you know she will get mad is basically saying you are looking for a fight with her.
If you feel true hate for a person, this is probably not the person you should be with, in all honesty.
If she truly is your best friend, try bringing her along to meet your other friends and including her in things that you do with them. It may be that she feels left out, and just needs to know she is still important to you.
@durgaray (22)
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16 Jun 08
if u think she is jelous for ur friendship with others,thn 2 things can b guessed...first whether she is jelous or possesive??secondly if she is jelous thn she is not ur bf rather ur compitator.if she is possesive the she love u a lot.so try to recognise it first before reaching to any conclusion ..